HARD TO ACHEIVE RELEASE

HI IM MARK,40 RECENTLY DIVORCED AND REALISING MOST WOMEN WONT EVEN ATTEMPT SEX WITH A MAN WHO IS OVER 9...I AM 11.8" LENTH,CONSERVATIVELY AND 7ISH THICK MOST OF SHAFT...I SELF RELEASE MOSTLY LATELY (MY EX-WIFE WOULD HAND RELEASE ME 60% OF TIME TOO).I FIND I GET SO HARD I CAN HARDLY FEEL MY HANDS AND CAN PUMP HIM FOR HOURS WITHOUT RELEASE.TODAY FOR INSTANCE I HAVE TRIED FOR 2-3 HRS(DAY OFF WORK) AND I CANT GET CLOSE TO RELEASE...ITS BEEN 4 DAYS SINCE LAST RELEASE AND THEYRE VERY PAINFUL(CAN SHOOT ANYWHERE FROM 6 TO 14 SHOTS IN A LOAD AND MY BALLS NEARLY RETRACT INSIDE MEWEN SUCH BIG LOADS TOO...ANY SUGGESTIONS NO MATTER HOW SILLY THEY SOUND(OR HOW KINKY) I AM WILLING TO TRY.THANX mARK