Hi my question is very unbelievable and confused so here goes nothing, I tried having sex on July 9 ,only the tip went in he did cum tho and we used protection and he didn't go all the way in either I bleed a lil bit now on July 23rd I went to have sex again an he didn't go all the way in either I bleed for a week but he didn't cum nor did I and it wasn't that long either.. now on August 11th we had sex a morning and as he push it in I started to feel pain and I stop him to stop when he pull out he told me I was bleeding so we were worried and stop we didn't had sex that day and I was in a lot of pain like if my period was about to come the blood scoked my underwear it seems like if all the time I try to do it I bleed .. could it be that my hymen is tough ? Each time I did it it came out alot of blood and was bright red my mom say she had the same problem when she was in her 20's when she was having sex like each time she had sex she bleed n like the fifth time when she went all the way she bleed and stop from then she say some girls bleed a few times but I have to full do it to not be a virgin anymore n I would bleed there was one time I bleed for a week .. I truly need some help I stop having sex on August 11 this is three months now I gone without having sex can someone tell me the way of loosing your virginty? Without having to bleed thanks ..