the first month we were together...we were inseperable and im talking soulmates...everything was perfect.but she says that back then she shut herself away from all of her freinds and events just to be with me. and now shes wants them back...and now im paying the price. the reason we got in this big fight was becuase i got upset that i bareley get to see her face to face once a week.also she told me that she doesnt need to see me to know she loves me...but...i guess i need to see her...in order to know...i mean i do know i love her but i like to see her...and i like to express my emotions physically.
Monday - she dances
Tuesday- she stays after school for tech
Wensday- (sometimes open)
Friday- her parents ussually make her do something
Saturday-her parents ussually make her do something
Sunday- is usually the only day i get to see her.
i don't blame her for wanting all of this...i'm understanding...but i do get jealous...so much that we fight frequently....at least 3 times a week.
but i dont want to lose her...im my heart i know shes the one and she knows i am too...but how do i make this work?
i am a jelous person and i hate it when guys talk to her but..shes never cheated on me or hinted on it at all so..its really stupid i'm jealous...
oh...maybe because I'm her first boyfriend, and ive had others girls that loved other poeple while bieng with me.maybe im scared of that...i'm scared of bieng hurt...and also why im not taking this break very well im always thinking about her...and every time i try to talk to her...i wind up crying because i need her...or so i think.this is only the first day of that break by the way.
i really am a jealous person.,,she's canceled on me a couple times...to be with her friends...but only a couple,but it hurts me inside...but not much.
i want to solve my trust issues becuase thats what i think is making this relationship complicated.shes so loyal its not even funny.Please someone help me...please... i need to figure this out but i cant do it alone...I'm begging anyone for help...little tips i don't care...just something i can use to better my wonderful relationship with my loving girlfriend because she makes me so happy.she deserves a better me and i'm willing to do anything to be that man for her.
first you have to give her her own space and take some time and do something for yourself,let her be the one looking for you,and best believe if she been with you all this time,i think you can do this! just let her look for you,and you be busy as much you can,preoccupi yourself with load of things and hey,if she dont look for you in mean time you still look handsome and its so many girls to choose from,but first love yourself and get busy! you might be surprised how many things can make you happy and so what if all you have its yourself! get new friends too and communicate with different people! just get her of your mind and do some else,hope you handle this like a man!good luck! mom32y,old