Hey I'm kinda struggling to be on top on my partner. He's always on top and it makes me feel like he's doing all the work, we've tried to get it right a couple of times but most of the time I cant do it. How can do top and make sex more fun rather having him doing all the work?
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XxApRiLxX,
I had the same problem when I first started having sex with my boyfriend. For me, I had trouble getting comfortable with the idea and I was always worried he wasn't enjoying it and I just felt uncomfortable and awkward.
I don't know if those are the same feelings you're having but the key is communication. I know, it's kind of awkward to have him give you tips, but it helps. Ask him what he would like you to do on top and then try it. Just tell him if its not doing it for him, to flip you back over and keep going. Then try again another time. Practice makes perfect. Also, start with you on top to get things going then switch halfway through. There's not as much pressure for you.
Took me forever to be decent at it. Just relax and focus on how you're feeling. If you're enjoying it, he will too.
Don't know if this is what you're looking for, but hope it helps!
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first you gotta relax...the main thing ofdoing top good is the movement.
have you ever given a lap dance..? if not just move back and forth ... how fast and hard you go depends on what the guy likes best.
but like i said the main thing is too RELAX
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