two "problems" that relate to my boyfriend and sex.
first of all, im totally comfortable with my boyfriend during sex, and i enjoy it very much! however, it seems like he puts way too much pressure on himself for a mind-blowing performance. he's so concentrated on making the sex amazing for ME that im worried he's not enjoying it nearly as much. he focuses so much on my pleasure that i know he's not getting the "full experience". i know many women would love to have this problem, but i am his first sexual partner and i want him to really experience how amazing sex for HIM can be. how do i relax him about his performance????
which brings me to question #2.
i know that he ejaculates, but he's not orgasming...i dont think. how can i tell for sure if he's achieving the big O?
any and all opinions/help is appreciated!!!
thanks!
=]
first of all, im totally comfortable with my boyfriend during sex, and i enjoy it very much! however, it seems like he puts way too much pressure on himself for a mind-blowing performance. he's so concentrated on making the sex amazing for ME that im worried he's not enjoying it nearly as much. he focuses so much on my pleasure that i know he's not getting the "full experience". i know many women would love to have this problem, but i am his first sexual partner and i want him to really experience how amazing sex for HIM can be. how do i relax him about his performance????
which brings me to question #2.
i know that he ejaculates, but he's not orgasming...i dont think. how can i tell for sure if he's achieving the big O?
any and all opinions/help is appreciated!!!
thanks!
=]
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Celebrity
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Unless someone can tell me different.
A man cant ejaculate without reaching orgasm.
As for your other concern, My partner is the same, but iv learn that unless he pleasures me to the max he dosnt enjoy sex as much.
He needs to give an he dosent need to recieve, He gets all his pleasure in pleasing me. This results in great sex as we understand each other.
Talk to him, ask him.
Look at other things about him in general life EG my partner loves giving me treats (not expensive things) he might just take me for a drive where he knows i like, he takes me to places where there is water as he knows i love water.
He lets me watch tv programs he knows i like. He wouldnt turn it over if something is on he wants to watch.
I now turn it over an pretend i want to watch it.
hope this helps an you understand what i mean.
He sounds a nice guy
A man cant ejaculate without reaching orgasm.
As for your other concern, My partner is the same, but iv learn that unless he pleasures me to the max he dosnt enjoy sex as much.
He needs to give an he dosent need to recieve, He gets all his pleasure in pleasing me. This results in great sex as we understand each other.
Talk to him, ask him.
Look at other things about him in general life EG my partner loves giving me treats (not expensive things) he might just take me for a drive where he knows i like, he takes me to places where there is water as he knows i love water.
He lets me watch tv programs he knows i like. He wouldnt turn it over if something is on he wants to watch.
I now turn it over an pretend i want to watch it.
hope this helps an you understand what i mean.
He sounds a nice guy
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men can ejaculate without orgasm it dosent happen too ofen but it can happen i know first hand but how do youmknow he is not having an orgasm? maybe he gets over excited and has pre ejaculation? there is nothing wrong with man trying to please you
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yea theres definitley nothing wrong with him trying to please me! and he is just how CaroleL described he loves to shower me with attention and it makes him happy to make me happy. and thats awesome. BUT. I want to please HIM too. im not SURE if he's not orgasming, how do i tell for sure?
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My boyfriend and I don't do much, but he ejaculates without his penis even being touched. What is wrong with it?
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