well, without having intercourse it's almost impossible to conceive.
there's extensive lengths you can go to to have a child,
-IVF -the sperm and fertile egg are put together and placed inside of you,
-have your partner, have his fertile sperm placed in a surrogate mother (his sperm is placed into another woman who will carry the child until birth)
^ those are some of the more expensive ways to have a child and aren't very easily paid for,
i would say don't have a child until you're ready to get intimate with your partner, if you can't handle intimacy you might not be able to hand the constant needs of a child,