Help me with some answers please!!! I am a 42 year old black female my only child is 14 I had a Tubal Ligation in 1999. Well I now what to carry a child BUT not for myself for a friend that wants me to carry her egg. So basically I will be a surrogate mother. My question is 1st off do I have to have a tubal reversal or can I just have the IVF procedure with her egg & her husband’s sperm, without have the Tubal reversal. Please assist us!!! They are just trying to have a baby