Im recently married. I lose my erection during penetration.
My wife's hole is also small. She hesitates for penetration.
More pressure from famil side for baby.
To have win win situation, We are going to try to inject sperm inside vagina without penetration.
Pls suggest which is best
1,by taking semen in fingers and putting inside vagina opening
2,cumming and immediately placing the penis inside the vagina opening directly
3, any other suggestions?
I'd suggest you both see a sex therapist. Anxiety, from both of you, can make sex an unpleasant experience. Anxiety WILL make you lose an erection and WILL make her tighten down. Pressure from the families won't help either.
No offense, but are you sure you're using the right "hole?"
Hope it helps.