I'm 18 and I recently had my first kiss. I really believe and hope the guy that I'm seeing could take my virginity because I really like him, but I'm really scared of the pain. I masturbate often(rub my clit). My friends who've had sex before say that I should have him finger me then let him insert the penis, but he is a tall guy with a big penis. I'm really afraid of the pain that he may cause. How do I get over this fear?
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I think you will want him to do it when the two of you are ready. You may be worrying about nothing too, as it is hardly painful or not at all for many girls.
When the two of you are hot enough let him try to see if it's going to be painful. This is something for the two of you to work out together and he should be willing to stop whenever you say to if it hurts.
You probably want to start out by masturbating each other until you are good at doing that then you can work up to insertion ---- with love.
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