Hi, i have been with my partner for 6 years and have wanted a baby for at least 4 of those years but i didnt say anything to my partner untill 18months ago as i thought we were a bit young and wanted to sort some things out first eg: we were just about to start trying to buy a house.
When i told my partner that i wanted to start trying for a baby he kept changing the subject, but eventually he talked to me about it. he said he isnt ready for kids yet and wants to wait. At first i wasnt happy with his answer so i sat down with him to better understand why he wasnt ready and he wasnt sure he "just knew he wasnt ready" and he was a little worried about finances but we arent short of money or anything. anyway i accepted that he wasnt ready then but i have still been waiting 18 months now, so my question is - How long is acceptable to wait for him before i should be doing something about it??? 8-|
When i told my partner that i wanted to start trying for a baby he kept changing the subject, but eventually he talked to me about it. he said he isnt ready for kids yet and wants to wait. At first i wasnt happy with his answer so i sat down with him to better understand why he wasnt ready and he wasnt sure he "just knew he wasnt ready" and he was a little worried about finances but we arent short of money or anything. anyway i accepted that he wasnt ready then but i have still been waiting 18 months now, so my question is - How long is acceptable to wait for him before i should be doing something about it??? 8-|
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Hi,
It's a wonderful thing that this man is up front with you, because bringing children into the world is a serious thing. However, 6 years if you guys were very young is not a long time. But I think that you will have to decide on wheather the relationship that the two of u have is worth you waitin for him to make a decision of when you both will start a family. Please don't do like many women do and that is to get pregnant anyway. If he is not ready you should respect his point of view. How long is acceptable for you, is something you will have to determine. If you are not willing to wait, which could be another six years, more or less of your life waiting until he is ready, then you may need to decide to move on. Know that how ever it works out, it will all be in Divine order...
Be blessed..
It's a wonderful thing that this man is up front with you, because bringing children into the world is a serious thing. However, 6 years if you guys were very young is not a long time. But I think that you will have to decide on wheather the relationship that the two of u have is worth you waitin for him to make a decision of when you both will start a family. Please don't do like many women do and that is to get pregnant anyway. If he is not ready you should respect his point of view. How long is acceptable for you, is something you will have to determine. If you are not willing to wait, which could be another six years, more or less of your life waiting until he is ready, then you may need to decide to move on. Know that how ever it works out, it will all be in Divine order...
Be blessed..
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Thankyou for your point of view :-)
I would never get pregnant in spite or force him into it as i believe a child needs two loving parents that want to and are ready to look after it.
I would never get pregnant in spite or force him into it as i believe a child needs two loving parents that want to and are ready to look after it.
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