I need to beak my hymen but dont know how!

ok 1st off  it will still hurt your first time even if you break it   mine broke at 8 when i landed wrong on a boys bike ... I did not have sex til i was 1 month from 21 it WILL still hurt .....even now when my hubby and I dont have sex for months b/c of life getting in the way it hurts  the ONLY way it does NOT hurt is if the guy is willing to take the TIME to make sure your body is ready for him ... i am ONLY telling you this much b/c you said your not plaining on having sex  make sure you don't  but if you are going to take on christian valuses make sure you take ALL of them not just 1 of them  masterbating and allowing your boyfriend to fingure you are still part of sex its not intercourse but it is still part of sex if you are going to wait for marriage then you should wait for marrage on that too just my opinion!  you dont need to brake it  its too far up ... Mine broke b/c I had a really BAD bike accedent I dont wish that one anyone not even my enemies!!!!!!!!   you'll be fine if you still choose to allowe yourself and your boyfriend to "play" around no matter what you do it will still hurt your 1st time unless he takes the time to make sure your BODY is ready not just your mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    i think you should talk to your mom and at the very least be honest and tell her in the begining " Mom I want your ear and HELP me find a saloution but, let me finish what I have to say and really liston to me before saying anything b/c what I have to say is going to shock you and may upset you but, you have to promise to wait til I am done talking and keep listoning to me the whole time OK?OK!"  

You can try doing sports, yoga, etc., or having sex. But I think the sports thing is the safest. For some people it hurts, and others don't feel anyhting at all. Try doing yoga or something...or attempting to do a split (lol) O_o But yeah I hope this helps!

doing some activities like split,horse back riding and etc

just wait until you have sex, it's going to hurt some the first time either way... my first time, I guess it broke but there wasn't any blood or anything so it's different for everybody.  i don't understand why people are trying to break their own hymens... let it happen naturally

why would you want to break your hymen, its painful when it happens. if you really research stuff about the hymen you will see that it doesn always break. look at a diagram or something. you need to get more educated on this stuff seriously. my hymen tore like the third time i had sex and now i constantly have problems with it, especially if i dont have sex for awhile. if you are properly lubricated and relaxed when the time comes it shouldnt be painful. maybe a little uncomfortable

I wouldnt break it if I were u. In fact, you boyfriend/husband will most likely find it an honor to break it for you. It's a sign that he is your first. But if u absolutely NEED to break it, then it sometimes it doesn't bleed or hurt. My friends broken without her feeling anything. And after day after day of walking and doing physical activities and having a period, it wears down a bit. So by the time your married, it might almost be gone. Sooo, do wut u think u should do! ;)

I've ridden horses my whole life and my hymen might as well been covering my whole vagina. It's different for everybody I guess but I found just using the end of a hairbrush (as a dildo) and eventually getting deeper will help. When I eventually lost my virginity it didn't hurt as much as when I first started using the hairbrush but it still hurt like a b***h

How do u no if it is broken? (:

here to help When I put a tampon in for the first time it hurt and it was dry so make sure u know how to properly put one in and its always gonna hurt

stop forcing your religious views on other people. answer the question and that's it...

Dude chill! She only said she wanted to have sex after marriage

idk how to break it for tampons though