How Do I Know I'm Having An Orgasm

Hello. I have just read your post and decided to help you because I see you are upset about all this.
I will try to explain you some things about orgasm and how to recognize it. There are not a lot of good definitions of orgasm but I would describe it intensely pleasurable physical response. It is release of tension built up during sexual stimulation.
You will recognize it easy because in that moment your heart will beat faster, your breathing will speed up, your nipples will become erect, and your genitals will become filled with blood. So it's unlikely you'd confuse it with anything else.
Beside all this you should know one more and maybe the most important thing- orgasmic experience varies from woman to woman.

your situation requires that your boyfriend sympathetically identify with your poorly articulated post-coital. to do this, you want your boyfriend to understand what it is like to be a woman. pick up a nice wig, something that suites the feebleness of his shoulders, buy him a nice dress, treat him to dinner make him feel like the lady he deserves to be. really spoil the guy. once he is comfortable with his pseudo-identity, berate him until he recognizes that he is no longer the man you want him to be. he'll be sobbing in your lap at which point you'll want to continue take advantage of him emotionally by saying things like "I do it because I love you" then BAM! penetration. As the two of you are locked in a dead-eyed stare in a desperate world of pain, he'll understand the complexity and the utter frailty of a woman's desire.

Im 11 and i know. When you masturbate u feel tingles and then u kind of shake like ur having an epeleptic fit. When that sensation comes put your hand on ur anus and your arm/wrist on your vajay and hump it then u sometimew feel sleepy.