my boyfriend and i are pretty active, we usually do it at least once or twice a week. the only problem is i have never in my life had an orgasm before. we have tried everything we know of for me to have one but it still just doesnt happen. it really bothers us, i want to be able to experience it and he feels let down like he isnt doing a good job and i want him to know that he is. can anyone help us? How can i have an orgasm ? is there anything wrong with my body?
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The first thing you need to do is let your fingers do the walking down south. You need to masturbate and find out what it takes to make you orgasm. Every woman is different, so if his technique is not working there is no way he can know how to get you off if you don't know for yourself. When you masturbate, take the time to get worked up and turned on, either thinking about something that gets you going or watching some porn, because you are also highly unlikely to cum if you are not turned on and wet. Once your motor's running, let your hands take over, paying careful attention to your clitoris (as many women can orgasm by clitoral stimulation alone). Tease it, rub it, do whatever feels good. Try rubbing it with one hand while fingereing yourself with the other. Eventually you'll figure out what gets you off, then, when you and your boyfriend have sex, you can take charge and tell him how to make you orgasm. You'll feel better because you'll be getting off and he'll feel better because he's finally getting you off. And as an added bonus, he'll be really turned on, because a woman telling you what she wants in bed is VERY hot. Feel free to talk dirty. Doctor's orders.
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a spoon in your vigina will get you going and if you spin it its almost instant
(do it at an upwards angle)
(do it at an upwards angle)
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