(Masturabation tips) how do I know when I'm having an orgasm?

Are you male or female?

Dear Malawi

Assuming you are a girl, then realise that your clitoris is your pleasure centre. It's only known functions is pleasure.

Each girl is different, and what is good for one is not necessarily so good for another. So experiment with variety of pressure and speed. You may find that indirect touching produces more satisfaction than direct head-of-clitoris stimulation. Breast stimulation and inter-labia massaging should not be overlooked, but ensure you are sufficiently lubricated. Inside the vagina is also sensitive, especially the g-spot. If retaining an intact hymen is important to you, make sure that you are careful how you do that.

Orgasm is when you reach a peak of feeling such that there are spasms and waves of intense feeling that wash over you, followed by a feeling of release and pleasant sensations all over your body. Here again, different girls react in different ways. Most likely you will be very wet, and may gush liquid from your vagina. You might even squirt from your urethra, so it is always a good idea to empty your bladder before you start. Drink plenty afterwards to replace any lost fluids. But not all girls squirt, so don't worry about it. That may come later. However enjoy the feelings you get. If you have to remain quiet, you may have to restrain your vocal responses! That may affect your enjoyment, but you'll come to know what is best for you as you get to know your body and how it responds.

I hope this helps. If you want further help, let me know.