My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now. The first part of our marriage he was stationed away for the army in an area I couldn't go because of our daughters health. The past several months my husband has been stuck on online gaming. He plays every week for several hours even on nights I could really use his help. We have a 5 year old with severe behavior problems and a 2 month old son. While I love my children I'm with them 24/7 without help bc my husband works then plays his games. I have discussed my feelings with him about his gaming and asked that he choose his family first, especially bc he barely gets time with our youngest son, and I'm exhausted. But he blows it off informing me I just want to complain. I understand he needs time away but so do I. If I get out of the house I have at least one kid with me, while if he has a child and the baby cries for even a minute he insists I take him... Any suggestions