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I am 18 years old now and I cannot ejaculate. In fact, I have never been able to and never thought this to be a potential problem until now. I have actually never done any sort of masturbation until I was about 16.
All I get is large amounts of clear pre-cum and that's it, even when sexually stimulated. I've never had any problems obtaining/maintaining an erection, but I have never reached orgasm.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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Hi Syo,

Welcome to the forum.

Have you ever had a wet dream? If you say yes, then you can ejaculate.

The precum is a good sign, it sounds like things are working.

What happens when you try to masturbate? How long do you try masturbating before giving up? How do you usually masturbate? Some guys need different methods to reach orgasm, like humping a pillow. Just using their hand doesn't work.

Are you anxious or do you have any beliefs about masturbation being bad? Sometimes it can be a mental issue that's causing the problem.

Hope this helps some. Let us know
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Hey Dan thanks for the reply,

Now that you mention it, I have had wet dreams before. It hasn't happened in a long time but at least I know I've had some before.

As for masturbation, I usually go for about 20-30 mins before giving up and like i mentioned before, I get large amounts of pre-cum. Compared to others, I masturbate infrequently (about 1 or 2 times a week at most), and I usually go about doing this in two ways: Moving my hand up and down the shaft, and also by rubbing the glans where it is sensitive with my palms.

I don't have any beliefs in masturbation being a bad thing, I just don't really do it alot.
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Hi Syo,

You're welcome.

Good, you've had wet dreams so you know everything works.

I would think that you're masturbating for a long enough time to have an orgasm so I'd recommend changing your technique.

Lots of kinds like to "hump" a pillow. It kind of replicates your actions during sex. Give it a try.

Keep us posted. Good luck.
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I know this sounds corny buy you have to try. Try to masturbate longer, pace yourself, take your time, maybe watch some porn (gay, straight) it doesn't matter. But try to just take your time, oh, try to pee before you jack off because that may make it easier. I hope this problem goes away but if it doesn't, just go see a doctor.
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Hi I'm Daniel. I also am an 18 year old male and have never ejaculated. I have been trying my hardest to for about 8 years and still nothing. I have no problem getting and holding an errection, but I can never finish, and I think at this point I've tried everything. At one point I thought maybe I'm just not sexually attracted to the type of porn I was watching, so... I tried watching guy on guy, then, girl on girl... still nothing, I even tried watching some European video of a girl and a horse. I just can't find anything to do the trick. But I'm working up another plan, I've noticed this guy around school, but he's no ordinary guy, he dresses like a female. I'll make sure to to let you know what happens

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You might need help bud
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