SO THIS IS THE QUESTION I ASKED PREVIOUSLY....AND I HAVE NO SIGNS OF HAVING MY CYCLE. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
okay so my last period was on nov.10 and it lasted till the 14. i had sex with this guy on nov. 21 and then had sex again on the 28. during those two times that i had sex i was ovulating(not knowing). well now i've been having cramps in my lower abdomen, i've been feeling nausea, and i've noticed that i've been tired and sleep more and i also have lower back pain. what is the possibility of my being pregnant? my period is due this week on dec.13. i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do... i know what i did was dumb....but can someone please give me some advice?
thanks
okay so my last period was on nov.10 and it lasted till the 14. i had sex with this guy on nov. 21 and then had sex again on the 28. during those two times that i had sex i was ovulating(not knowing). well now i've been having cramps in my lower abdomen, i've been feeling nausea, and i've noticed that i've been tired and sleep more and i also have lower back pain. what is the possibility of my being pregnant? my period is due this week on dec.13. i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do... i know what i did was dumb....but can someone please give me some advice?
thanks
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nothing that's going to help me.. i know my body and my cycle isnt going to show up and i need help. i dont want to take another test and get a negative to find out weeks later i'm pregnant. the guy i might be pregnant by wants me to get a abortion...i'm just so confused and hurt
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well, why dont you wait another 2-3 weeks then go to your doctor? as your the one who wants the abortion... you THINK he's the father. this right here should tell you to not listen to him. he should have no say in anything until you find out if it is even his. even then... it is not his desicion. never let anyone pressure you into doing something you dont want no matter what they say. abortions can have very serious consequinces and once you kill your baby you can never get him/her back. there are plenty of other options out there if for some reason you think that you can not handle the responsibilities of a baby. lets not jump to conclusions and stress out lets wait until you find out for sure that you even are pregnate.
hope this helps. let me know if you have any other questions or concerns :-)
hope this helps. let me know if you have any other questions or concerns :-)
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You may be able to get results now from an HPT. Some of these are so sensitive that they can detect the pregnancy hormone up to 5 days before you actually miss your period. Take the test first thing when you wake up in the morning before you take your first pee of the day. This night time urine is highly concentrated and will be easier to pick up the hormone.
You can only take one step at a time, so see if your pregnant first before you have a heart attack.
You can only take one step at a time, so see if your pregnant first before you have a heart attack.
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thanks a lot guys...i just really need someone to help me through this time, because i dont want to tell my parents until i'm sure and my older sister wont take this news too good. this morning the guy that i may be pregant by keeps pressuring me to take a test now. but today is the day i'm suppose to start my cycle and i want to wait until it's at least a day late. would that make any difference in my HPT results? should i only take the test in the morning?
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Like i said in a previous reply some HPT's are very sensitive and could pick up the pregnancy hormone now, some will give you a negative response when in reality you are really pregnant, it just depends how elevated the HCG hormone is in your body.
The test should only be taken in the morning if you want the most effective result. The morning urine is very concentrated and will give a better result. You can take an HPT any old time you want but the first pee of the day is the best time.
Tell your bf to chill lax a minute as this is just as stressful for you as it is for him. Obviously he is more worried about himself right now which is selfish.
Ya know, you made a mistake now you have to make a big girl decision. DO NOT let this guy bully you into something that you may regret later. Your parents and your sister will eventually get used to it and bf will just have to get over it.
The test should only be taken in the morning if you want the most effective result. The morning urine is very concentrated and will give a better result. You can take an HPT any old time you want but the first pee of the day is the best time.
Tell your bf to chill lax a minute as this is just as stressful for you as it is for him. Obviously he is more worried about himself right now which is selfish.
Ya know, you made a mistake now you have to make a big girl decision. DO NOT let this guy bully you into something that you may regret later. Your parents and your sister will eventually get used to it and bf will just have to get over it.
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i think i just got what appears to be my cycle. i woke up and it's only spotting. is this a good sign? do i still need to take a HTP in the morning?
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sounds promising but i would still do one as some spotting can be due to pregnancy however that implantation spotting usually occurs 8 days or so after sex.....
it sounds like you should be fine but i would take one just for the peace of mind... hopefully your period should increase from here :-)
it sounds like you should be fine but i would take one just for the peace of mind... hopefully your period should increase from here :-)
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hopefully it does. :-) it's been about five hours since i first started spotting and the flow hasnt picked up at all.... : %-) dont really know what to think at this moment. but if it hasnt picked up by the morning then i'll take anoher HPT. :'(
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