okay so on friday i lost my virginity. i did bleed because he "popped my cherry" but should i still be bleeding? and i'm not really sure if this is normal to have after losing your virginity but i've been having cramping around my abdomen and have been feeling weird and kind of bloated around there. i feel like i'm just freaking out and thinking i'm pregnant but i shouldn't be since he used a condom and pulled out before he let everything out. i'm on birth control too but i know i missed that day. and im pretty sure i was still spotting from my period the day that we did it too. i think i'm just freaking out since this is all new to me. i will be taking a pregnancy test just to make sure though. i just didn't know if this stuff is normal after losing your virginity. someone please reply? i could really use the relief and stop freaking out.