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I'm sure you've all heard about boys feeling like they are girls and vice versa, I'm like that but different. I'm 13 a girl bisexual and very tomboy-ish. I don't feel like a girl or a boy. I don't want a penis or a vagina (or boobs). What am I? Ps. I would love links to websites with info on it

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I think, if you need a label, it would be:

an·drog·y·nous [an-droj-uh-nuh s] adjective 1. being both male and female; hermaphroditic. 2. having both masculine and feminine characteristics. 3. having an ambiguous sexual identity. 4. neither clearly masculine nor clearly feminine in appearance: the androgynous look of many rock stars. 5. Botany . having staminate and pistillate flowers in the same inflorescence.

Someone who is androgynous is and androgyne.  I think it is used more with appearance, but it works for identity.

I would suggest you not worry about labeling yourself.  We are all on a scale of masculinity/femininity.  Society tries to tell us what is "normal" or "correct", but here we are - diverse.  We are all born, without being asked to be born and trying to make it as best we can.  When you think of this, there are no rules.

You may someday be attracted to someone for some other reason than sexual attraction.

I have a friend, a woman, who struggled her whole life, still does, with fitting in her body.  She would like sex, but the thought of sex with a man repulses her and her religiousness, raised in an evangelical Christian home, doesn't allow her to consider women.  She doesn't associate with that church now but still has baggage.  The thought of a baby nursing from her disgusts her.  She's very intellectual, speaks several languages and intelligence attracts her.  Also sports.  She is attracted to male rugby players oddly enough.  She's a dear friend and I don't label her.  She is amazing and I wouldn't want her to change.

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I am 17 (female) and pansexual. I feel the exact same way. I don't want either genitalia. I feel terrible. I want people to use the right pronouns and only my boyfriend of 2 years does. I hope you find out what you want to know. I am also looking for answers.
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You and me have a lot in common I'm a 13 year old girl but I don't feel like a girl and I don't feel like a boy.Even if I was to decide I wanted to be a boy I don't think my family would be very accepting of me but I don't want to feel like I'm someone else in a girl's body.I'm just stuck.

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I am an 12 year old girl and i feel the exact same way. My parents are Mormon and would disown me if i ever told them how i feel but i dont think that i could live just pretending that im ok being a girl.
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i feel same, i am 13 girl and my girlfriend see me sometimes like if i was trans and i don't know if i am because i feel like a dude and a weird girl and that's weird :\
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i feel like i am neither girl nor boy but what happens if i still to wear girl cloths. does that change anything/
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Hi I am Georgia and I am 13 I am attracted to boys and girls and I am scared to fell attracted to girls.

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well to to bee attracted o girls
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I feel the same way, I'm 14 and my mom hates the fact I like girls, shes homophobic and transphobic. I dont know what to do because I don't feel comfortable being a girl and I don't want to be a guy. I've been looking to see what seems right, and nothing has showed ='
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