Am i gay? Or not? Bisexual? AddictioN?

lol its no big deal it just sounds like your bi, you probs just feel guilty about gay stuff because a lot of ass holes in the world have a problem with it, but its totally normal and it does really matter if you like girls, guys or both.

I´m brazilian n´so i apologize for my english. You are heterossexual, straight... but your brain is addicted in porno movies. Now it wants more and more dirty things, taboos, etc... like beer -> cigarette -> marijuana -> cocaine -> overdose. ADVICE: Avoid porno movies! Stop! These movies don´t change your orientation, but they change your behavior. It´s physiologic, understand? Bye!

Don't stress Julin, you are just a normal 16 year old guy.  Sexual identity is so over rated.  When I was 16 I was always turned on and it did not matter if it was straight or gay sex, it got me aroused and I enjoyed it.  I experimented with by male buddies when I was younger and really enjoyed it, but I also enjoyed straight sex as well.  Deep down, you know what orientation you really are.  If you feel that you are straight and emotionally attracted to women, then you are more than likely straight.  These days, there seems to be many more people who are bi.  In either case, don't worry about it.  Just relax and enjoy it.

What you described is who I am.   The issue is that I am 55 and you are 16 some 39 years younger.  It goes to show that age does not really matter when it comes to our bodies and how it reacts.   I have been trying to search for possible answers myself and have been unable to.   I can't explain why I react like you do but you are NOT alone, there is another.   What I can tell you is that if I had to do it all over again I would fulfill my fantasies for that is what kills reality.   At my age it is hard to kill the fantasy because I can't act them out in reality being too old.   Your body wants to experience the world.  It wants to understand what things are.  There is nothing wrong with it.   Some people say that you should suppress your feelings.   This will only add to the urge and will make it stronger.   If you want to kill that urge then you have to remove the fantasy.   To remove the fantasy is to replace it with reality.   Believe me when I tell you that  there is nothing like reality which works since reality never lives up to fantasy.   Once you know the truth of this urge then you are able to not concentrate on it anymore.   I was married for a long time and I know what sex with women is.  I no longer have much interest in women.   Some still turn me on but I know the drill much like watching a movie over and over again.   My biggest frustration is that having fulfilled the gay side within me as I would have done in marriage.   Perhaps have sex with guys, sucking penis, getting anal sex and even kissing or dating men would have put that reality to rest.   And by guys, I mean guys.   Not one boy but enjoy to be able to say you know what you are doing.   In that manner you can finally put that fantasy to rest to.  Then you can properly choose for yourself since you know both, none is a secret much like having tried all the food at a restaurant and now you know what you truly like.   The only advice I can give you is to ACCEPT who you are, to experiment until you have had enough and know what you want.   As long as you are single and not in a relationship where you hurt another then you are ok and, that is if you disclose your intentions too your sex partner, no games, no secrets of what you are doing.   Good Luck to you.   Life is not easy especially when you have so many people being so judgemental as if they know it all.   God put us here to experiment and to get to know ourselves.   God will love you no matter what you decide.

I love a girls face, but with a flat chest and a penis that I can suck and get screwed in the ass but I dont like vaginas I love cum, .. That does not make me bi, straight ir gay,, advice?