I know this has nothing to do with health but I just need help. I'm a junior in high school and I used to be really popular. I was friends with almost everyone in my grade and got invited to hang out with people. Now I have lost everyone, I dont really hangout with people anymore caused its either they blow me off or never reply my texts. Now I suffer from anxiety when I get nervous (sweat) and I'm really quiet. What should I do? And to be honest, I know I was a jerk when I was popular.
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Hi Wrestler
It is about your health and well-being going through what you experiencing is very tough and it is hard to deal with.
To be part of the popular crowd and now to be on the outside looking in can be hard to handle and can really mess with your emotions.
It is good to hear that you recognized your behaviours when you were with the popular group as being a jerk at times it is very easy to put the blame else ware and where it maybe should not be.
If you take anything away from this please always remember how much it hurts and the devastating affects it can have on people when they are mistreated by others if you always remember this you will change and treat people the way you should and it will gain you friends that are worth having.
You can change your behaviours and your attitudes towards others and it will take time for people to except and forgive you for things that happened in the past.
So now that you have experienced life on both sides going from being popular to being isolated for you the most important question to answer is do you really need to be part of a group that feels it is oaky to judge others, mistreat them, and do whatever they can to make the lives of others very difficult.
Friends that will stick by you and don’t need to make others feel terrible for their own satisfaction are the friends that are worth having, they may not be part of the in crowd or the most popular but they are the ones that know what a friend is and they are the ones that are worth having as friends.
So is it time to look for some new people to hangout with and find some friends that you can count on?
You know how much it hurts and the affect it has on you when people that you thought were your friends will cast you aside so is worth getting back in with a group of self centered people that are only concerned about being in and staying in the popular group and could care less about who they hurt.
If you need help dealing with all of this don’t be afraid to talk with your school councillor or you can ask your parents to see your doctor they have lots of information on where you can get support to help you through this difficult time.
I wish you all the best and things will get better you have recognized that part of the problem was your behaviour and a lot of it is you were in with a group that one day I hope you will be glad that you are no longer part of I hope you find some new friends that you can count on a couple of good friends will benefit you far more than a group that has no clue what a friend is.
All the best.
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