A few days ago, Myself and my.boyfriend decided to try and have sex well to give it a go, It was my first time so I was so tense and nervous which made me unable to be comfortable however I felt this pain which was very unusual and so I thought it must have been the breaking of my hymen. An hour later there was blood which was normal but what I don't understand is that I don't think the hymen has fully broken. I have searched online and read through your previous answers, But I just can't seem to understand if it has broken as I have checked with a light and Mirror. And I'm still afraid to do it again with my boyfriend because of the pain the last time? What do you think I should do?