I am a virgin and I haven't had sex before, but last night I decided to try out a dildo, as I was curious. It wasn't very think and about 4 or 5 inches, but I didn't feel and pain or get any blood when I used it? My friends said that using one breaks your hymen and that you usually feel pain and that there's blood when it happens. I've just turned 16 and I don't do a lot of exersize, though I used to do dancing and was very flexible when I was younger. Did the dildo break my hymen, or did it happen at a younger age due to all the stretching I was doing? Or has it just not broken yet? Please answer, thank you.
It could be a few things.
- The dildo did not rupture your hymen and it is still intact. That could be for a few reasons:
- It was thin
- You were gentle
- Your hymen is tough or flexible
- The dildo did not rupture your hymen because it was already ruptured.
- The dildo did rupture your hymen but it did not bleed. A thinner hymen has a lower blood supply.
This was posted mid-December 2013, so what has happened since? Have you inspected yourself with a mirror?