I saw some posts floating on the net about stretching the hymen (exercising it) to make it more flexible/ elastic by using the finger to push the hymen aside for both side everyday. I don't get how can you break the membrane and there's no bleeding? Probably it's just out of place a little... you think? The first few times were fine. Now it felt a little stinging as if something is proded up in the vagina opening. The rubbing of the underpants when walking also irritates the area (not the clitoris. it's a little further down, near the anus). Can the pain be caused within the inner of the vagina rather than the ripping of the hymen?
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If all these hymen issues are of no real concern to you, only others, then don't worry about it.
Yes you can break it while mastrubating. Mine was broken by a boyfriend who didn't know what he was doing. When I had intercourse for the first time the guy I had it with couldn't tell- he didn't care either.
I don't think I lost my verginity the day I lost my hymen. This take on the situation doesn't harm me or my partner. There's no measure for a male to loose his verginity like a hymen for a woman, so I say bah to that deal. I loose my verginity when I have intercourse.
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My hymen was also broken by a boyfriend who had no clue what he is doing. He was rough believing that he offers me a pleasure and I was young and silly so I haven't told him that I don't feel comfortable. I didn't want to hurt him and he was hurting me. What a paradox. I was 18 years old then, I was virgin and thank God I had nice relations with my mom. I was talking about everything with her. I remember that one day I came home with just one question: Mom, can masturbating broke my hymen? She started to smile because I am sure that she knew what is my next question. She explained this really good and I am really happy because of this. So, that is my advice for you - find someone who you can talk to about this.
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