i had sex with my boyfriend couple of times and i didn't bleed, i had never sex before

Dear Marie

 

Not every girl bleeds on first time sex. Bleeding usually comes from the hymen rupturing. However, the hymen varies from girl to girl. Some just stretch and don't tear. Some have already ruptured from vigorous exercise or from tampon insertion.

 

However, without protection, you could get pregnant!

 

Hope this helps.

 

it is not the first time it's second time and my boyfriend told me that you are not virgin.... i don't know any thing about this idea, he is the only guy that i had sex with him and i have not masturbation before so i get mad because i don't know any thing

Dear Jano

You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse, because a virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse.

After your vagina has been penetrated by a penis, you are no longer a virgin.

Hope this helps to make it clear. You say you don't know anything, so if you want to know anything more, please ask. Privately if you wish.