i have a ball behind me ear, around the back of my ear lobe, it gets biger then small again, mainly when i eat or drink something sweet.... but it just happenes out of nowhere when i put food in my mouth somethimes i have to wait till the pain goes away then start to chew... i dont know what it is, but i would really love if anyone can help me... i went to a "NURSE" ,not doctor, before but she told me it wat normal and that other people get it, but i have not met one person who has it, and i think if it was normal, why would it hurt??.,,,...,.,.,.,,.,. PLEASE HELP