I have been noticing semen stains on my husband's underwear

It is normal for a man to have seme leak from his penis for more than two hours after sex. If you and your husband have been intimate, then he put his underwear on, you are going to find stains. And he is right, it is normal to get an erection throughout the day - and it can be from something as simple as talking to YOU. This will cause some semen to leak as well.

Hopefully this helps you. My husband doesn't want to have sex as often as I do wither, but I am not surprised given that I have a very high drive. We comprimised, and I ask less and he does it more, LOL. Now after almost 3 years of marriage, we are finding our groove. Hope you can find yours!

I agree that it is normal for sperm to leak from the penis for a length of time after ejaculating. Especially if wearing underwear after sex or masturbating without having a shower first.

 

Also I will say that sometimes an erection can come in between a man and his work. Or even on a date a hardon can be a real pain in the butt as it is inappropriate sometimes. A quick and easy temporary fix for this is to take 5-10 minutes and work one out for the sake of hopefully going limp. I have often masturbated at work for the purpose of diffusing a chronic erection, and have also released myself prior to a date or during a date when my erection was beyond being able to be tamed.

 

I keep a couple of videos on my phone just incase I need to spunk one out as I cannot work with a heavy penis poking into my pants. When I do this it is quick and discrete but at times it is not possible to wash up and the end result is staining in the crotch area although I'm not sure if it's more or less than what would accumulate in one's underwear if it were to be just pre-ejaculate. Another factor is a prolonged erection can produce a type of blue balls, ejaculating is sometimes not just an urg but a duty.

Ladies just be glad you don't have to walk around with embarrassing erections at times it's most unappropriate, and if you think we've been masturbating, odds are we have although it doesn't necessarily represent infidelity or anything. Occassionally I have to work one out on my own even when I've had sex once or twice a day, it's like nature's call.