semen leakage on underwear without intercourse

Usually the penis must be erect to secrete sperm. He must be getting excited sometime during the day. Sometimes after ejaculating the penis will leak a little bit of sperm for up to 2 hours. Does he masturbate before going to work?

First there doesn’t have to be an erection for semen to discharge, in many cases of nocturnal emission "wet dreams" the penis is not always erect. If he had a wet dream that night, that could be one cause. Holding out on your husband and your husband not masturbating could also cause some discharge or if he was extra turned on thinking of YOU all day at work with/or without some fun play time at home could cause this to occur. My wife and I were virgins on our wedding night, for what ever reason I decided to stop masturbating a week before the big night and I was dripping like a siv two days before, I noticed it when I would go to the bathroom there would be a little bit sitting in the tip and a small amount in my undies. Also is he taking any new vitamins, meds, any like this could cause an upset in the norm. Also consider it might not be semen it “COULD” be an infection. Also some men at times have pre-cum it occurs normally during an erection but it doesn’t for some men and at some times in our life’s it wont require any extra stimulation, for some men they will pre-cum every time they have an erection to some degree. It doesn’t have to be something he might be doing with out you; he may love you very much and may just be extra turned on. Also men masturbate we have been doing it long before you ever came around and sometimes its something that gets revisited it doesn’t make you a bad wife or a poor lover it’s an easy, uncomplicated, quick and some times a selfish way to make yourself feel good. Talk to your husband, maybe buy a power tool for yourself, you may like it, let him be comfortable with himself pleasing himself, but you should talk about shuch things make some ground rules do only what you are both ok with doing. For excample one rule I have on the power tools is no penis like toys are allowed and nothing too big small to med sized toys only, she got me a masturbator, its a toy for men and her rule on the matter was no vagina looking toys also thay are very fun to use together. For us making love should be first priority and first choice but if things haven’t worked out and you need to be worked out you should be able to, this is just my thought and my wife is sitting next to me as I typed this out. I hope you read this before you get to upset with him. Sorry if the spelling is off, I typed this in a hurry.

You didn't say how old your husband is.... he could have presure on his prostrate which can cause pre-cum semen leakage, a simple swelling of the prostrate can cause many things.

Then again, it may be nothing more than your husband thinking about your naked body, seeing your vagina in his mind, that causes him to have a super hard erection during his work day. May be he has been shopping for some really sexy panties for you, or nightie, and the thought just made him have a very hard erection and he had pre cum in his shorts.

It is very normal... men think about sex 80% of their waking hours compared to most women.

That is completely false. The penis does not secrete anything. Semen can and does exit the penis via ejaculation during sexual activity and/or when the prostate is massaged. Semen often is released when there has been a delay of ejaculation and the prostate is full particualrly when men strain to lift something or while defacating. Additionally, many decongestants will cause the prostate to become swollen with excess fluid which gets released during urination. Many men experience pre-come at any time during the day for various reasons including thoughts!

Sounds like the words from a cheater!

amen to that!!!

I agree with this

I agree as well. Men can justify anything in their minds. Also, everytime we argue, the enxt nigh he has an emergecny at the office and works late. I doubt this is always a coincidence. Also, when ic onfornt him he gets very defensive, also another sign he is lying. An innocent person does not get defebisive. Beside I said it to him in jest as to not be accusatory.

Some excellent advice there - yes - men get turned on over the slightest thing and many (including myself) leak precum juice without getting erect, merely by thinking about sexy things. I often have white stains on my underwear from precum - it doesnt mean I have been unfaithful, just that I am a normal man with a good healthy sexual appetite.

Are you keeping him sexually satisfied? - That could be why he is staining his pants - having sexy thoughts all the time!

Yes even though my penis is soft, after I finish a bowel movement andabout the time I pull up my underwear I have a small glob of semen leak out. Sometimes more than others.

Absolutely yes! It is 100% normal. What is not normal is someone inspecting someone's undergarments. That is highly suspect!

so does this mean that someone on meth could have these stains because sudafed is a decongestant right? i notice these stains in my bf too and i think he is on meth, the stains are different than when we have sex when its after me they are larger stains, but the stains when no sex is had are small. i know he shouldnt be on meth and i am in theprocess of "investigatin" that issue. but its hard to figure out the cheating part....i have asked him, and told him to be honest so we can work past it and he says no hes not and i also no that he cant usually keep something like that from me without feeling so guilty he admits it when i ask him, or when he notices im acting wierd. so is it possible that HE IS NOT cheating?

Hello....stumbled on it while getting the clothes for laundry

To whomever would be offended by your significant other checking your underwear - YES I CHECK MY HUSBANDS UNDERWEAR!!    I've done this man's laundry for over 18 years and clearly notice when things look different and lately have never seen THIS MUCH semen on his undies, or this often.  No other symptoms suggesting prostatitis... so I have to wonder who he is oogling, cause it sure as sh*t ain't me. Most women don't do this as a usual daily task.  Then comes the day when we catch our partner in an affair. Sex life was great, but months before discovery, sex dropped like a rock.  When I found out about his affair, I was devastated, and still am very uncertain. I got the whole "it was only an emotional affair (geeze!  insert standard answer here, right?), ... that turned out to be a bunch of c**p.  I immediately went to the Dr and was tested for everything STD.  Luckily, everthing came back negative  except for the HPV - It was "inconclusie and so i have to get tested every 6 months.   A friend of mine went through a similar situation, but she unfortunately had to undergo cancer treatment due to the HPV her husband acquired from his w****, and shared with his wife.    We've been through counseling and don't think it did anything but postpone his behavior.    I've since been told by people who've known him for over 15 years that this is the 4th affair he's had since we've been married.  Nice that everyone knew yet they were all willing to let me catch a disease that could kill me, because they don't want to get involved.  You'd think I'm some ugly naggy b***h... completely the opposite, but back to my point.  I was the last to know, and absolutely am not going to put myself in a blind trust situation ever again.