I have mild to moderate pain everyday from a hemorrhoid that is just inside. The outside will often swell to the size of a grape. I have seen 2 surgeons, one completely dismissed me the other said come back when it's bigger. I have had enough of dealing with this. I am aware of how painful surgery can be. Can I demand that it be removed? Has anyone had a hemorrhoid that doctor didn't consider to be severe removed. I have had this for many years and have tried many things and my condition remains. It will never go away. Tired of living with this.