i am 26 yrs old and i lost my verginity when i was 18 to my boyfrind. I always pretend that i feel good when i have sex with him. But i have never felt anything. I slept with onother guy to see if it was my boyfriends problem. But it seems i dont feel anything at all. I have been pretending that sex is good all these yrs. please help is it a medical problem. am very confortable with myself. i do relax during sex but nothing helps. what is wrong with me?
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I do suggest you see a doctor to make sure everything is okay. An OB/GYN can give you the proper exam to see if everything is all right.
If the doctor says all is well, you can get a second opinion from another OB/GYN, or you can look at different solutions like seeing a sex therapist. These specialists analyze in the physical and emotional reasons for sexual dysfunction.
If the doctor says all is well, you can get a second opinion from another OB/GYN, or you can look at different solutions like seeing a sex therapist. These specialists analyze in the physical and emotional reasons for sexual dysfunction.
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Hi may2 ,
I'd be interested to know what constitutes 'sex' in your relationship. Believe me, If you are not having a good time it may not have anything to do with you.
'Great' sex for me is plenty of foreplay and the mutual giving of pleasure to each other. Exploring each others body to find all those special places that set 'fireworks off'.
Pretending 'all is well' isn't helping your situation though. He'll just think he's a stud and doing great, and keep on doing the same things that aren't working for you.
I'd also ask if you masterbate at all. If you do, on your own, and can't pleasure your self, then you might have to see a doctor to find out what the problem is. If you can pleasure yourself then maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom with your partner. If you have never masterbated then lock yourself away in a darkened room and have some 'me time'.
I'd be interested to know what constitutes 'sex' in your relationship. Believe me, If you are not having a good time it may not have anything to do with you.
'Great' sex for me is plenty of foreplay and the mutual giving of pleasure to each other. Exploring each others body to find all those special places that set 'fireworks off'.
Pretending 'all is well' isn't helping your situation though. He'll just think he's a stud and doing great, and keep on doing the same things that aren't working for you.
I'd also ask if you masterbate at all. If you do, on your own, and can't pleasure your self, then you might have to see a doctor to find out what the problem is. If you can pleasure yourself then maybe you need to spice things up in the bedroom with your partner. If you have never masterbated then lock yourself away in a darkened room and have some 'me time'.
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