So i was masturbating and when i got to the point of ejaculation i wanted to test myself and see if i could hold it off by concentrating (did not do anything physical to hold cum), with extreme focus i was able to do it but i was scared that maybe it was bad so after holding it for maybe 10seconds i let it rip and i nutted like never before. So i need to know, is it bad to do this? There are so many different reports some say it can go back up into your bladder some say nothing will happen. What's the truth. i hope it's ok to do because that would be awesome 8)
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I don't think using your mind to delay ejaculation is bad at all. In fact, there are manual techniques to do this. If you can indeed use your mind power to control when you will come, you will be able to truly please a woman. Congratulations, you are on the way to becoming a stud.
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I've been a stud since you've been in diapers, everything you said did not answer my question in anyway, anyone could use their mind to control when they come, it's just a matter of thinking neutral and not gettin to excited when that latina is riding you, but the question was when indeed you are at the verge of coming, is it bad to hold it back, many say that it could go back up into your system.
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I believe you are thinking of 'retrograde ejaculation'? Mentally holding off will not re-route any of your plumbing or cause any damage like physically blocking it.
Happy "studing".
Happy "studing".
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Ninja is correct that retrograde ejaculation will not harm you.
It is not common, but it won't "hurt" anything. The semen just comes out with the next urination.
As far as "mentally holding back", I'm not convinced that this can be done.
You might stop stimulating yourself. You might stop before reaching the "point of no return"... but I'm not aware of anyone who can "will" themselves to come or not just with their mind.
There is a danger in this though. Doctors no longer recommend that men try to think of "Unsexy things" to avoid coming too soon. The risk is two-fold... First, that if they think about "Unsexy things" (like baseball scores, for example) that they can condition themselves to associate those "Unsexy things" with sex and coming, and therefore reverse program themselves to react to what used to be "Unsexy" as a sexual stimulus.
The other more serious consideration is the possiblity that you train yourself to NOT ENJOY sex, and the fail or not react release when you're engaged in intercourse. While this happen occassionally to all men, it can become a learned behavior and then become a self-defeating behavior that must be broken or unlearned. And that is difficult to do. Not to mention it can be very frustrating to a partner.
Hope this helped some.
It is not common, but it won't "hurt" anything. The semen just comes out with the next urination.
As far as "mentally holding back", I'm not convinced that this can be done.
You might stop stimulating yourself. You might stop before reaching the "point of no return"... but I'm not aware of anyone who can "will" themselves to come or not just with their mind.
There is a danger in this though. Doctors no longer recommend that men try to think of "Unsexy things" to avoid coming too soon. The risk is two-fold... First, that if they think about "Unsexy things" (like baseball scores, for example) that they can condition themselves to associate those "Unsexy things" with sex and coming, and therefore reverse program themselves to react to what used to be "Unsexy" as a sexual stimulus.
The other more serious consideration is the possiblity that you train yourself to NOT ENJOY sex, and the fail or not react release when you're engaged in intercourse. While this happen occassionally to all men, it can become a learned behavior and then become a self-defeating behavior that must be broken or unlearned. And that is difficult to do. Not to mention it can be very frustrating to a partner.
Hope this helped some.
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When i masturbait, i dont like to just do it till i cum then stop, its over to quick, i usually start and stop, when i start to feel myself coming i stop, and start again, this way i can go for hours if i want, also when i'm about to cum i hold it in with the same muscles you hold would hold your pea in with when am about to cum, sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt when i've gone to far, is any of what i sed bad for you in anyway??
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Yeah you guys ever see the movie "Go"? Dude talks bout it in that. I've been doin it a long time durin sex, and it never seem to hurt anything. Like they said when you take a piss it pretty much clears it out
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Hey guys I managed to do it. Not exactly mental, but motionless (some kind of meditation).
When there's the point of no return, I simply relax, and stop doing anything. At that point the penis is actually acting the same way as ejaculation, but not squirting. By this no energy is being wasted, but the pleasure of cumin is there. A win win situation.
However this will only work for 3 or 4 days, more than that the overload of semen will come out sooner or later, it feels good as well.
Then I simply do it again and again till next explosion.
Much better than holding the penis, and much more natural. When I pee a little bit of cum comes out, but is minimal.
Took me like a year to develop this, but is possible.
When there's the point of no return, I simply relax, and stop doing anything. At that point the penis is actually acting the same way as ejaculation, but not squirting. By this no energy is being wasted, but the pleasure of cumin is there. A win win situation.
However this will only work for 3 or 4 days, more than that the overload of semen will come out sooner or later, it feels good as well.
Then I simply do it again and again till next explosion.
Much better than holding the penis, and much more natural. When I pee a little bit of cum comes out, but is minimal.
Took me like a year to develop this, but is possible.
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By delaying you are teaching yourself to hold off, which can be good for you next sexual partner..
Ive done this and by the third time, I get off like a cannon:)
Ive done this and by the third time, I get off like a cannon:)
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I do it all the time simply because it feels great. It's almost as if right before I'm about to cum I stop what I'm doing my cum is pretty much at the tip of my penis. then after I steam down for a few seconds I go at it a couple more times. It almost hurts in a way by the time I cum but it's an amazing good hurt. not like owe owe. More like OH MYFUCKING GOD FINALLY! haha hope this is not unhealthy in anyway
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Practice moving the muscles in your balls then aventually you got it straight forword
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YES It is bad too hold it !!!!
I have done it for yrs , and now everytime I sweat I have a odor , everytime I get exited with a girl I build up odor . I went 2 the doctor and got tested and said I was clean but did not help me in the problem (bastards)
If u wonna last longer with your girl in bed , masterbait alot(without holding it, just keep busting) before u have sex with her.
If your already experiesing this problem exercise alot by running and drink water but not a hole lot of it , don't drink soda bcus it keeps it their stored longer and I recommend not smokin anything tell your good, reason why bcus u will sweat more easily then becomes a life threatening embarrassment .
Hopefully this could help those who are living the hard live before it's too late .
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