I have tried and it doesn't give me the satisfaction that I want it to

Hi So I'm guessing you've never done much exploring down there yet If you have one get a mirror and have a peek, whatever you see is perfect as like peoples faces not any two will be exactly the same. Towards the top of your as you open you outer labia, the lips with the hairs on, you will see on each side another set of smaller pink lips, this is called your inner labia. You can start using the flat area of either your pointy or middle finger to gently have a feel just onside of them, see if anything feels nice, any specific area, moving towards the top...by top I mean up toward your belly not down toward your bum, so moving up a bit you will find an area that feels kind of like a bump, it;s inside whats called your hood, this is your clitoris and the magic button for masturbation. If your finger is not slipping about easily maybe if your a bit scared you wont be too wet just yet, put some saliva on it, so it moves about easily.
So far you've found your clitoris, try circular movements slowly around it, some people dont like direct touching at first, just move about see where you get that hmmm feeling. If you seem to enjoy rubbing directly on your clit you can either carry on with circles, or side to side, up and down whichever you prefer. If you need more moisture either more saliva or lower your hand towards your bottom (not that far just that direction) and you will feel your vaginal opening, you may want to either take some lubrication from there and carry on with your clit or decide to explore yourself inside. If you decide to feel inside, perhaps try your little finger at first, if you feel the one you have been using maybe too big. You can put it inside as far as you feel comfortable, Im not suggesting you do this but if you put the whole length of your finger inside you will not damage yourself, unless you have long nails...best to trim them before hand anyway lol
So inside move your finger about touch the sides, front back what feels best for you, gentle circle movements on that area for a while can be nice or some girls prefer to move up and down, or make their finger flick back and forth as if you were calling someone over (if that makes sense). Whichever method you prefer, clitoral, internal or both carry on with it as long as you feel comfortable. After a while you may feel one of or both of your legs twitch, this is normal, this will increase as you start to enjoy yourself more. You may feel your tummy tightening and your heart start to race quite hard, again this is all normal and happens as you climax. Some girls feel the urge to wee, dont worry you wont pee yourself. Just carry on with what is working and youl figure it all out. It may be you dont feel the leg shaking etc for a few times, again no problem, some things take time, or you may need to find another method. I'm not goin to overwhelm you with more than finger stimulation, as you are just becoming curious about yourself and need to walk before you can run. Just be safe, wash your hands before and make sure your nails are not too long, if you get the urge to use something to put inside yourself be sensible, make sure its clean, smooth and cant break off of cause any damage. Again for the first few times just stick to figuring out what you like and where before you think about moving on to other methods.
If you need to ask me anything again I'm happy to pop back, I can take some time as I'm not in the same time zone as you. Hypnomorph wil be back when he has chance, until then stay safe and enjoy

Hi, check an anatomical text book in the school library for a diagram. Your clit is towards the front of your vulva, where the lips meet ay the top. A picture makes it easier to explain. When you touch it you'll know. It's highly sensitive. Also, relax and enjoy exploring your body. There is no one right way to masturbate. Whatever feels good is ok.