Hey, I’m 20 and I’ve been masturbating for a while now. The thing is I can never orgasm. I always get to a point and then I’m suddenly not turned on anymore. Can someone give me specific techniques I can do with my fingers like a step by step or something so I can reach an orgasm please?
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Hi Chloe, when you say you get to a point then not turned on any more, can you explain the lead up to this point on what feelings you get and how you masturbate first?
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Hi, so I start off caressing my boobs then slowly move down to my thighs then get closer and closer to my vagina. Then I start rubbing my clit in circles and that feels so good. I get so turned on but then it’s like it hurts to touch it after a bit and it gets so sensitive and I can’t seem to orgasm. Any ideas on what to do to help?
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I would say go for more indirect stimulation rather just direct on the clit, the clitoris only looks small on the outside but ended the skin it has nerve endings spread out around most of the vulva.
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Hope your keeping your fingers moist, saliva is a very good lubricant. Try branching out and exploring other areas. Take your time going slow to learn your body and what feels the best.
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Could you maybe give me a step by step that I can use next time to see if that works for me?
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Sorry that message was from me but I hadn’t realised I wasn’t logged in. But yeah could someone give me a step by step to reach orgasm please? Just to try if that works
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I could give you step by step instructions from the point of a guy or from what I've seen other women do. If that helps
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Everyone likes different Chloe so what ever anyone tells you doesn't mean your get pleasure from it, masturbation is experimentation time so you learn to explore your whole body not just areas someone tells you to or just your clit.
Take a nice hot bath and just relax when you know your going to be alone for a long time, let your fingers explore your whole body while you let your mind fantasize caress your breasts, stroke your areolas, rub and softly pinch and pull your nipples, run your fingers light run your fingers over your tummy and pubic region, run your fingers up and down your labia spreading your lips if you want, gently slap your clit, run your finger softly over the area between your vagina entrance and your butt hole, tease yourself and do what ever you feel like, it's your body and only you can know what feels great for you and most of all enjoy every moment of experimentation because we all have to learn somehow.
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A regular know it all I see, you should read what she wants before you answer. "Step by step" instructions, not some guys view of what he thinks works.
Btw my wife read what you wrote and laughed saying that sounds like something a 15 yr old dreamed up in the shower to get themselves off.
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As I said if you actually took the time to read my reply no one can say what actually works because everyone is different! What I wrote was just a guide I didn't say if would work on every female but many of the things actually work for my wife!!!
If your wife thinks she is such an expert then why didn't she reply to it on the first place?
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