Hi, I haven't had sex before.. I would like to know how it feels? I don't really want to have the talk with my mother again.. So I thought I would ask you guys.. I'm really scared to have sex.. Will it hurt?
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How it feels depends on who you are and who you're doing it with. If you're not in love with the person it's best not to have sex with him, but if you're the type that is into the fun and the feeling then it's all on you. Sex isn't exactly heaven... it's three or four months of pain and takes getting used to before you can feel pleasure. It's gonna be you and pain and him and pleasure for the first few months. You're always going to feel self-conscious for a while or even longer just depending on who you are. But know about urinary tract infections, STIs, pregnancies, contraceptives, lubricants and so on before you actually go for it.
Since you're saying "I don't really want to have the talk with my mother again" I'm guessing you're still underage. I don't mean to offend you but I'm just going to say, just because others are having sex and talking about it doesn't mean you should too. Don't let the talks make you want to have sex just because.
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