I let my boyfriend finger me allot I need some advice as I'm only 13

Hello I don't think you should do that. I think you should wait till your married to have sex and do all that finger stuff. I think you should do that stuff when your married so you can have sex and whatever else you want to do.. I guess fingering won't hurt you or get you pregnant. But sometimes is might hurt.. 

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 You are THIRTEEN!! Still a child. You shouldnt be letting a boy touch you like that at all. You shouldnt even have a boyfriend! At least not one who is almost 17. Think how your mom would teact if she found this stuff out. Dont let him touch you like that. Dont touch him like that. Dont have sex at all. Thats the best thing you can do.

don't have sex at 14.

I did, and i regret it so much now.

I was young and stupid, and if I could change it I would.

I didn't regret it for a while, but now I am 17 and I do.

He also broke up with me soon after.

Your still in your early teens, and boys can be very stupid and immature. 

im 14 years old..never had sex, never even had my first kiss...Sincerley..the way things should be lol

i realy think you're boyfriends moving Waaay to fast, you'r only 13 , were still kids, it dosent seem like he respects you that much if he's Fingering you, thats not that romantic, yuh know? i recomend Not having sex with him because he's Almost an adult , were still kids.

I have two sisters at the age of thirteen, if i found out they had sex with a 17 year old i would personally hunt him down and break his penis so he couldnt have sex again .... How long have you been with him? if you need advice about it then i personally dont think your ready however only you know when its time, you shouldnt realy be asking strangers what they think.

Jesus, you're 13! You shouldn't be doing this at all, you need to wait until you feel comfortable with it all. You won't get pregnant from being fingered, but you need to be careful this doesn't lead to sex. 13 is too young to loose your virginity - believe me, I know. I lost mine at 13 and I wish I'd had the common sense to wait until I was older and I respected myself and my body more. Also. Some of the answers on this forum are quite creepy, and you should be careful as people might pose as a younger girl on here to answer, but might not quite be who they say they are. Above everything be safe, and be secure. Don't do ANyTHING you don't want to!