I started to masturbate when I was 12 I'm a 15 year old boy. I masturbate once a day, or try to at least. I want to save my virginity for until after I'm married and my gf and I plan on it after college. (I don't care if you think that there's no chance or whatever.) anyways. when she's away from me for an extended period of time he body starts to ache and when she see's me again it goes away. I've had this happen a couple times if don't get the chance to masturbate that day. I want to get her to masturbate so that she won't feel achy anymore but she says all of the pleasure she wants she gets from me. so I'm at a loss. and the idea of her masturbating turns me on like no other. :p she's tried it before and didn't orgasm or get any feeling out of it compared to when she's with me. I can't help her at all because our parents are always home when either of us goes to the others house. please give me advice on getting her to do it and enjoy it. :/
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I'm a little confused here. You say she says she gets all the pleasure she wants from you when you are together, then you say the parents are home whenever you are with each other so you can't help her.
Do you engage in mutual masturbation? If you do, I think that's an excellent opportunity to talk with her to try to convince her that it's OK with you for her to do it when she's away. Is she a victim of the old idea that masturbating for her own pleasure is dirty? I think my wife had that drilled into her by her mother. We've been married over 40 years and she has never admitted that she masturbates or ever did before we met. She has no visible clitoris and I can't find it at all. However she has no problem moving my finger to the correct spot when I'm masturbating her. How does she know where it is? o.O
Do you engage in mutual masturbation? If you do, I think that's an excellent opportunity to talk with her to try to convince her that it's OK with you for her to do it when she's away. Is she a victim of the old idea that masturbating for her own pleasure is dirty? I think my wife had that drilled into her by her mother. We've been married over 40 years and she has never admitted that she masturbates or ever did before we met. She has no visible clitoris and I can't find it at all. However she has no problem moving my finger to the correct spot when I'm masturbating her. How does she know where it is? o.O
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no we don't. I massage her breasts and suck on them every once in a while and that 's as far as we've gone. but to mutually masturbate we couldn't disengage in time when one of our parents comes walking in then "bust". Which is why I'm upset. I would help her if I could but I can't. %-) I'm pretty sure she knows where it is. I've described it and where it's located. she said she knows where it is. I'm just not too sure she knows how to stimulate it or herself correctly. that's why she got frustrated the last time she tried to. she didn't get much out of it and was a waste of time.
I don't think her parents have drilled anti-masturbation before.
I don't think her parents have drilled anti-masturbation before.
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It takes trial and error experimentation to figure out what works best. She shouldn't get discouraged because she didn't get the desired results the first time. Practice, practice, practice. Some girls don't like clitoral stimulation and some get nothing out of it. At least that's what I've heard ----- I never found one myself. Even my wife, who "never masturbated in her life" 8-| and has no visible clitoris, has wild orgasms when I do it for her. She's a "screamer". o.O
If she simply doesn't care to do it herself, no amount of coaching from you is going to make much difference.
I'm sure there's a girl somewhere who never masturbated and doesn't want to. But I thought I married her, to save the rest of you guys. XD
If she simply doesn't care to do it herself, no amount of coaching from you is going to make much difference.
I'm sure there's a girl somewhere who never masturbated and doesn't want to. But I thought I married her, to save the rest of you guys. XD
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my girl friend is the same. where she hardly touches and i want her to do it and we take it to the next level. is there anything i can do
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