I'm 13 and I don't know how to get an orgasm.

Your only 13, i'm 14 and i don't know how. I also finger myself to feel pleasure but honestly we're both too young to really even be thinking about sex or how we can have sex. We both need to focus more on our schoolwork and well being instead. Before you know it NCEA will come around in Year 11 and you need to be prepared for it. I'm doing some exams a year early and it is really stressfull. Believe me, dwelling on the fact that neither of us knows how to have an orgasm isn't going to help in any way. I know that this isn't helpful to you at all and i'm sorry about that. I just thought you should know my opinion.

 

I am not quite sure what your question is, other than not being able to get the release you desire, At your age you should look into the facts about sex, very good read also helps yo to discover who you are and what will make you a better you because science supports people who have happy and better sex live longer and healthier but at your age you need to focus more on how to find pleasure among your self find out what works for you, and wait till you are 100%. the first time will suck they age you you need the facts about sex, !) Sex can be beautiful, but if your not ready it can cause emotional illnesses

I'm 13 too and i really found that my hairbrush is realy good at helping me orgasm, while i rub my clit with my spit. A little gross but sooo worth it ! :)

I'm also 13 but I do know how to. It just NEVER works for me. I don't get it.

6teen & what I would do is that, from experience it’s all about what you do and don’t like, but what I do is that I would probably just get an curler brush (use the end of it, grey and has a black tiny tip (well that was the one I had lmfao) and I busted that out and used it, worked really well actually since it was smooth texture and hit my g spot rlyyyyy good. (Hairbrushes aren’t rly the best option for me because they all have odd shapes.) (oh and lube it w spit obi and make sure too wash it the end part of it before hand because you don’t it all dirty lmfao,) put some porn, music, whatever ur into on and there u go! Sry for this comment being kinda graphic but again this is just my experience w this! Hopefully this will help!