Yeh so the subject says it all... i'm 16 and have had lots of wet dreams but it seems when i try and masterbate it doesn't really feel like good as what its been advertised my entire life... like it doesn't feel bad it just doesn't feel good... and i can't cum either... but i have tons of wet dreams which i no is cum just while im sleeping.. so i no i am ABLE to cum... i just apparently can't make myself do it? only while i sleep? i can never remember any of the dreams either... this sucks cause i have a girlfriend now whos starting to get serious with me... and i REALLY want to with her also... but i don't wanna start and then not be able to finish... that would be really embarrassing :-( so yeah... any help would be awesome! have any questions just ask... i'll be happy with any suggestions :-D
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Discovering what you enjoy is part of life. Trying to live up to what you think other people think life is not. Or rather, it is, but it's not healthy in the long run. Be informed by others' opinions, but not moulded by them.
As to your girlfriend and getting serious - I'm delighted - try romantic. If your US, then you're below the age of sexual consent, so you've got a couple of years to relax, enjoy life, learn about relationships.
And forget about being concerned: just remember, your partner is (we might hope) as inexperienced as you are. It's one of life's more enjoyable explorations, if you don't stress yourself out over it.
As to your girlfriend and getting serious - I'm delighted - try romantic. If your US, then you're below the age of sexual consent, so you've got a couple of years to relax, enjoy life, learn about relationships.
And forget about being concerned: just remember, your partner is (we might hope) as inexperienced as you are. It's one of life's more enjoyable explorations, if you don't stress yourself out over it.
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haha actually shes not inexperienced... shes 17 almost 18 and i just turned 16... yeh... :-P and okay i guess just figuring it out makes sense, but still, why can't i cum while masterbating but yet i have tons of wet dreams... any answers?
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Two things, perhaps, I should point out: as regards your can't cum issue, sexual arousal is 90% in your mind. If you're expecting angels dancing on your penis, you've been misinformed. You will have to investigate this yourself, as no one else really knows what's going on inside another person's mind. If you feel it appropriate, you may consider discussing it with your doctor, and consider alternate strategies: hypnotherapy comes to mind, to see what might be impeding responsive.
The other point is that the moment she turns 18, depending where you are (I'm UK, majority is 16, US typically 18), she becomes guilty of statutory rape and can go to prison for engaging in any sexual contact with you: hands, mouth, intercourse. The law is somewhat lopsided, a guy doing that to a girl goes to prison for sure: a girl seducing a guy only maybe. Go figure.
Right now sexual contact means you're both breaking the law, but who's seducing whom: society is less punitive, if they pursue the matter at all (else 50% of the posts on here would have Big Brother tracking them down and arresting half the teens in the country it seems).
If you disagree with my interpretation of the law, go check it out: at least be informed. She may love you, but enough to go to prison for a ha****b? Not my idea of appropriate risk and reward.
The other point is that the moment she turns 18, depending where you are (I'm UK, majority is 16, US typically 18), she becomes guilty of statutory rape and can go to prison for engaging in any sexual contact with you: hands, mouth, intercourse. The law is somewhat lopsided, a guy doing that to a girl goes to prison for sure: a girl seducing a guy only maybe. Go figure.
Right now sexual contact means you're both breaking the law, but who's seducing whom: society is less punitive, if they pursue the matter at all (else 50% of the posts on here would have Big Brother tracking them down and arresting half the teens in the country it seems).
If you disagree with my interpretation of the law, go check it out: at least be informed. She may love you, but enough to go to prison for a ha****b? Not my idea of appropriate risk and reward.
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haha so no real answers for the masterbating thing.. but thanks for trying! its the thought that counts :-D and we have actually looked in to this... a couple of things factor in, such as that we were together way before she was 18, we are within 2 years of age and as u said, im a guy :-P
sources: my mom is a lawyer... drop a couple of random questions u can get lots of answers! :-)
sources: my mom is a lawyer... drop a couple of random questions u can get lots of answers! :-)
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Ok, that got a chuckle. And no, you may be safe, or choose to take the risk, but no, I'm not going to start publicly giving 'sexual instruction' to a minor - thanks, I like my freedom too much for that. For the time being, you'll just have to muddle through, like the rest of us!
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8-| In case anybody cares which you probably don't I am 51 and have never had a girlfriend and have never had sexual intercourse and never will because I am currently impotent. I agree that masterbation is bad and does make you angry and you shouldn't do it.
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The legal age of consent is the Us is 16 not 18 so he is not going to be in legal trouble for having sex. Look up your facts before posting false answers!
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Perhaps you are trying too hard to cum and it has not turned out the way you wanted. You said that you had many wet dreams - I therefore assume you are physiologically in good health. You may want to abstain your masturbation for a couple of days and monitor the frequency and trend in your wet dreams. Thereafter, try giving yourself a stroking session in the morning and see how it turns out. You must also be in the mood to want to masturbate in the morning. Hope this helps you to cum.
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