I am a 20 year old, circumcised male.
For as long I can remember, masturbating has never felt that good.
I am a bit concerned, since I can get an erection, but have only had a few times where I can pre-cum.
I've tried using lubrication a few times, it hasn't really helped.
Masterbation doesn't really feel great...
Although I can maintain an erection, i just feel there is no sensation.
The only time i have cum is during wet dreams...
I'm not sure what I should do?
Any advice out there?
For as long I can remember, masturbating has never felt that good.
I am a bit concerned, since I can get an erection, but have only had a few times where I can pre-cum.
I've tried using lubrication a few times, it hasn't really helped.
Masterbation doesn't really feel great...
Although I can maintain an erection, i just feel there is no sensation.
The only time i have cum is during wet dreams...
I'm not sure what I should do?
Any advice out there?
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That is unusual. Ultimately, sex is as much a mental thing as physical, at least 50:50.
If it doesn't feel great, it may not be a big deal for you. I can appreciate that peer pressure might suggest you should like it, should want it, should have girlfriends (boyfriends, whatever), ultimately emotional and sexual personality is unique to the individual.
Emotionally, you may not have found the 'trigger' than turns you on - if neither girls' beach volleyball nor Saturday Night Football do the trick, we're running out of sexes to like, so it may just not be a big deal for you.
If you feel all the emotional raging, but simply can't come, then there's a chance you may have a psychological block, guilt trip, whatever - in any case, discussing this with a qualified professional, be they hypnotherapist, therapist, whatever - might be beneficial (though please do yourself a favour and go in with a state of curiosity, rather than a fear there's something wrong with you); or you may check it out with your doctor, and test for physical (chemical) issues, though I have no idea how thorough medical science is going to be in the matter.
Women and babies is a big deal - guys not getting erections, likewise - not cumming is rarer as an issue, the usual problem being the reverse.
The obvious last question is how do you feel in the rest of your daily life: if life is humdrum, ok, not a big deal, then maybe again looking at that, physically or mentally, might be helpful: passion in life and passion in bed are not unconnected.
If it doesn't feel great, it may not be a big deal for you. I can appreciate that peer pressure might suggest you should like it, should want it, should have girlfriends (boyfriends, whatever), ultimately emotional and sexual personality is unique to the individual.
Emotionally, you may not have found the 'trigger' than turns you on - if neither girls' beach volleyball nor Saturday Night Football do the trick, we're running out of sexes to like, so it may just not be a big deal for you.
If you feel all the emotional raging, but simply can't come, then there's a chance you may have a psychological block, guilt trip, whatever - in any case, discussing this with a qualified professional, be they hypnotherapist, therapist, whatever - might be beneficial (though please do yourself a favour and go in with a state of curiosity, rather than a fear there's something wrong with you); or you may check it out with your doctor, and test for physical (chemical) issues, though I have no idea how thorough medical science is going to be in the matter.
Women and babies is a big deal - guys not getting erections, likewise - not cumming is rarer as an issue, the usual problem being the reverse.
The obvious last question is how do you feel in the rest of your daily life: if life is humdrum, ok, not a big deal, then maybe again looking at that, physically or mentally, might be helpful: passion in life and passion in bed are not unconnected.
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