Im about to let my wife have sex with another man for the first time, should i stop this?

Guest over a year ago

I really want to know how this turned out. Because I can't believe you let your wife f**k your rival. you won, then you let her go back out of some winners guilt fantasy.

If she *was* to do it with anyone, it shouldn't have been this guy. That's like inviting history and feeling into your relationship. So I gotta know, how did it end?

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Guest over a year ago

My friends wife did he same thing. She is off the charts beautiful but his se drive was much lower than hers. She convinced him that another guy would be good for their marriage and that he should give her some freedom in that area. She dated for a few months and had 6 or 8 men . She ten told husband that once a week she needed a session and all the while not allowing him to have other women. She has become addicted to that lifestyle and needs even more ! Be careful, its addictive !!!

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Guest over a year ago

Ref. "it's addictive"; You are so right!
She admitted so and even said she even got a rush from it. For days, my Wife was dripping wet (at first I didn't know why) and I even caught her rubbing herself at 2 in the morning! When I asked her about it the next day, she lied and said she was probably just scratching herself!
3+ weeks later, I am happy to report that we had an in depth discussion and are now back to normal (sort of because I'm still hurt and will probably take some time to heal). Thanks for your interest though ;-)

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Guest over a year ago

Ref. "Authorized Romance"; You are right, and I'm paying the price.
I am however happy to report that 3+ weeks later we are back to normal (sort of as I am still a little hurt). BTW, I NEVER considered that this fling would turn into a romance and I should have figured that out because my Wife can be such an airhead! I even found out that this guy is much older and not even attractive (but holds a very impressive position in that City).

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Guest over a year ago

I also thought it would be hot (for her to get screwed by another guy). Well, when it finally happened, the LAST THING IN THE WORLD that I thought would happen, was that she would fall in love with some other guy. Well, guess what? It happened! Now, I am dealing with it and still don't know how it will turn out in a few months :(

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Guest over a year ago

Yeahhhhhh what did you think was gonna happen buddy

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Guest over a year ago

No I have the same priblem. I am 53 and have a hard time getting an erection. And my wife wants sex and I can't give it to her.

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Guest over a year ago

Think things out and consider ALL consequences. The last thing I ever thought would happen was that she would fall in love with guy I let her have sex with! Not all her fault though. She is very attractive and the guy she did started messing with her head (romancing her and convincing her that I was bad and she should leave me …. for him of course!)

One thing you might want to consider if she insists that someone else gives it to her, is that you are there for the threesome, even if you don't participate. This way you are at least there to ensure the schmuck does not start screwing with her head! There are a lot of Swinger Web sites where Single Guys will do that service for you for free. Good Luck and please think things out!

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Guest over a year ago

I have been trying to get my wife to open up and have sex with other men as well.. we have had a rocky relationship.. well last night it almost happened I'm 1000 miles away and she went to a wedding and the guy ended up makeing moves she said she feels interested and I told her to go for it and enjoy but he didn't wanna respect my boundaries which are few. She was about to finally do it after 4 years of talking about it and bringing it up during sex... she is still up there and they are talking and I told her just go for it and have fun I hope she does it and has some awsome sex

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Guest over a year ago

This is very hard core to start a swinging relationship with. I would first maybe try a MMF with your wife and see how that feels for everybody. If this is enjoyable then you may wish to progress to "Hot Wife" scenario - Me and my wife are married for 20 years and have played for around 8 years, we started very slowly to ensure we all enjoyed what was happening. I dont know if choosing a man who has a past with your wife is the best option either, there is a fine line between sexually turned on and jealousy, with your wife clearly wanting this man your question should be can you trust her to engage in this for what it is meant to be "sexual pleasure only" when you share your wife the man you share her with is a toy a pleasure machine if you like - when feelings and romance come in to it thats a door you dont want to open. Again try a 3 sum with your wife and a single man :-)

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Guest over a year ago

In respose to; "I have been trying to get my WIfe to open up and have sex with other Men…":
Yes, that was my thing to, but I should have carefully considered consequences as well. For one, my WIfe is very hot. Secondly, she is a bit of an air-head and I can now see where she'd easily be manipulated. Well, this guy she had sex with got to her head! He wanted more sex so he started to romance her and somehow also convinced her I'm no good for her! Good thing that this happened in her foreign country where she no longer lives (and all her family and our children are all here in USA). Still dealing with this issue. So please, consider all issues! PS- Consider swinging with threesome instead, that way you're always there!

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Guest over a year ago

YUP, THAT'S THE BETTER WAY OF DOING IT! I MADE THE MISTAKE OF TRUSTING MY WIFE, BUT SOME SCHMUCK GOT TO HER HEAD!

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Guest over a year ago

Why not if both agree. My wife and I had been married for nine years and sex had become routine. She was 29 and I 31 at the time. We discussed our sex life and fantasies one night following sex and I related that I fantasized her with another man. She at first was against the idea but we continued to talk about that and other sexual fantasies. She agreed after a while. I was in the military at the time and bought a friend home that my wife indicated she was attracted to. She had sex with him while I watched and latter joined.joined . mm latter after he left we talked after but it after bound both agreed we liked it afterm and agreed we enjoyed it. We continue to do this and have moved onto swiNing with cpls as well. I can say it is the best decision we ever made and it has mad our marriage stronger.

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Guest over a year ago

"Having sex with another guy" was not the problem. The issue arose when I noticed she had actually lied about many things. For one, she first claimed she only had sex with him once (turned out it was three times....and now I suspect could have been more). Also, she was communicating with him everyday and grew enchanted with his "romancing" her! At one point, he asked her if she would leave me for him (note: he was married also). When my Wife returned to U.S., I noticed a difference in her immediately. She was NEVER one to text, get involved in social media, etc. she would often forget phone at home! Well, when she got back, I noticed that the phone would not leave her grasp and she was checking for messages, every 5 seconds! That's how I found out everything (I found her password & discovered everything!) Good News though is that 1 1/2 months later she has almost gotten him off her mind (I made her delete & block him). So, I would suggest to anyone else that has this fantasy of letting their wife screw another guy; think of all possible consequences first! Thank you for your input.