We are Swingers and have had some memorable experiences. She had never screwed a stranger before, so that was the new fantasy. Well she found one and screwed him, but the guy got to her head (sorry to say this but my wife is a bit of an air-head) and she fell for his "romances". Guy was married also and apparently (to me), wanted more and more sex, so he romanced her to the point that my wife was considering his suggestions (of leaving each other's spouse so they could stay together). Good thing this happened in another country (her old home town) and she is now back home. This "fantasy" backfired on me big time!
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That's bol locks i make my wife cum every time unless its all about me :) . I'm having the same fantasy but its for the excitement of my wife being able to lose her inhibitions which is hard for all women to do in front of ppl they have known so long . Our sex is amazing and we are very adventurous between ourselves but soon I'm going to tell her subtlety that she has my permission so long as i know its going to happen and where .. i do not want her to tell me who it is until afterward which means that i will learn of what type of men she finds attractive . I could go on and on but its obviously my natural feeling and its the excitement of being in a long term marriage knowing you can talk about anything.!
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Ref; "long term marriage and can talk about anything". Yup, sounds like my situation! We too have great sex and are really also best friends! This screwing a stranger thing sounded like fun. Well, I wasn't there when it happened, and she saw an opportunity to please me (fantasy had been initiated by me years ago, but she never found the right opportunity"). Where it happened, very few people knew her (only a handful of family members), although she still had to sneak out so no one would notice. Our agreement had been to have her call me and tell me everything... before anything ever happened (she didn't). When she finally told me (vaguely mind you), she had already screwed him twice! A couple of days before she returned home, she vaguely mentioned it again, so since I didn't really believe her (she'd always lied about almost hooking-up with a guy before, but she was kidding in order to turn me on). I told her about another agreement we had made; "if you do it, I'd love to see a picture!" Well, apparently she never took a picture (although she'd already screwed him twice), so she used this as an opportunity to see him a THIRD time! So, as you can see, my wife and best friend broke our agreements! I then discovered evidence that she had fallen for this guy as they'd had discussions about "leaving each other's spouses"! It's a good thing she was only there for few short weeks! I'd hate to think what would have happened had she stayed there longer! So, sorry to extend this response, but I highly advise you to carefully consider consequences. I don't blame it all on my Wife, I blame the schmuck who wasn't satisfied with just a one-time screw (my wife had made it clear to him that she was happily married and only looking for a one time quickie!"). Best wishes to you and your Wife ;-)
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Ref. "as long as I know it's going to happen". This is the same agreement I made with my Wife. I reiterated this requirement to her over-and-over again. Well, when she went on vacation to this other country, she suddenly caught amnesia and never told me about it until she got back! Something I never thought about was "what if my wife winds-up falling for some guy she screws some day?" That's exactly what happened, that's why she never bother to tell me anything until "after" she got back. I suppose she could have tried to keep it a secret, but she knows I am very savvy and would have found out sooner or later! Anyway, once she got back and told me about this guy she screwed (3 times, mind you!), I asked her, "what happened to our agreement about telling me BEFORE you got-it-on with anyone?!" She claimed we never made such an agreement! (lying b***h!) She has apologized, and 3 months have now gone by and all (seems to be) is well.
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If she wants to you have no choice in it. She can always go behind your back. Only question is how are going to deal with it? Be glad she asked before she did it.
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Agree. I'm new to it as well. It was hard but the idea did turn me on. It has awoken my sexuality and our sex is awesome now. Better than ever before. It's not for everyone for sure. It takes trust and a will to try something new and live life. I have a girl (super hot). Not into threesomes but my wife and I are meeting other people into it. It's a sub culture out there. Hard to find it. It when you do you realize your not the only one. And ALWAYS practice safe sex.
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Make her video and you will love it trust me. Just be cool and whatever you do dont get sad or mad about it at least in front of her. Act like it doesnt bother you andyou cant stop watching hed video. She will love you for it.
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DON"T DO IT.
As much as I thought it would be a turn on and believed we had an open relationship the immediate result was regret and endless negative thoughts. I truly wished her to have a great experience but could not cope with my own insecurities after the fact. If we survive this it will never be the same
As much as I thought it would be a turn on and believed we had an open relationship the immediate result was regret and endless negative thoughts. I truly wished her to have a great experience but could not cope with my own insecurities after the fact. If we survive this it will never be the same
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My wife of 30 years did the only problem was she did it with the same man many times and did not let me know before but it all worked out it was very hot and helped helped our love life if she would do it again I would be all for it she was wet and full of cum when she came back from his hotel we had sex 4 times and she had sex with him the next day then we DoD it three Moore times that day she was loose and full of cum for three days
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I had this fantasy for many years. I was married to my first wife from the age 20 to 26 she was promiscuous and I think that's when I first noticed my arosal at the thought of her with another man...we had several encounters with me sharing her with my best friend and it was awesome....unfortunately our marriage ended as even with my permission to have sex outside the marriage (if I was there) she continued to have sex behind my back. I'm still confused about that I met a wonderful lady that same year and we married the following year 1995. We were married for the next 20 years. I told her about my fantasy however she would have no part of it so I had to supress my desire through my entire marriage. Needless to say after getting a small taste in my previous marriage was hard to do...we divorced about 3 years ago and I started seeing a woman my wife and I were friends with. She has been in an open marriage for many years. Her and I had been attracted to each other for the 5 years we had been friends but we had always done the right thing and kept our relationship Strictly a friendship until my wife and I spit. Me, her, and her husband have been in a closed relationship for the past 3 years now and I have to say it's been the best 3 years of my life. I've never been truly sexuality satisfied. We live in separate homes because I'm still raising a teen but I go stay with them as much as I can on the weekends...most of the time she sleeps with me but somtimes she will go have sex with him so I can hear them...other times they will let me watch...and a handful of times I have been able to participate...there is no jelousy out of any of us...it is the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. We both just adore her, all my sexual scratches are itched and we are all happy. So I say give it a go...take it from a guy who held it for 20 years...the desire will never go away and if she leaves you for him you never had her to begin with.
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I agree my wife did everything but penatration with my ex brother inlaw it was great he wants in her i see why not its just sex
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That's a TERRIBLE idea. She's your wife. You have sex with her. You don't want some other guy having sex with her. Here's a tip - stop watching porn! You're obviously watching porn where you see extreme things like some guy sharing his wife with another. Enjoy your wife. Be with her. Keep that "letting another guy have sex with your wife" idea stay away from your mind. CRAZY.
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I know the feeling for I share my wife also with several of my friends and we both love our arrangement! Knowing others enjoy my wife makes me feel awesome!
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