anyone else suffer with this? my daughter who is 18 and had her 1st sexual experience recently - luckily we have a v close relationship so she can speak to me. she has been with her boyfriend for 6 weeks and he attempted to touch her, but within seconds she was in complete agony as if a hot iron was touching her. she said she was completly relaxed, wanted him to touch her etc but her body just shut down. on reading up on this it defo sounds like vaginismus - where although u want to be touched, your subconsious just stops u. she will be going to docs about this next week, just wondered if anyone else is going thru this and how u are coping