heyy!! im 15 about to turn 16 and i need some sex advise!! my boyfriend is 17 and he wants to have sex...badly!! all my friends have had sex and have lost there v card!! i still have my v card!! when i was 13 i was still dating the same guy! he was 15 and him and my best friend(who is a year older than me) had sex!! he was drunk that night cuz he was at a party and she was at the same party! she didnt know that was my boyfriend at that time cause she hadnt meet him yet! well when i found out i was really mad and could believe it! i was hurt for along time but i finally got over it! my boyfriend and i hang out at his house all the time and he always tries to have sex! i always tell him that im not ready and i want to wait a little longer!! well this last time he told me that he was tired of waiting on me!! he said that if i dont want to have sex with him just to tell him so then he can move on! then he changed his mind and said that he was going to dump me if i dont have sex with him!! oh wow im just talking now!! :$
so my question is what should i do?? should i leave him and move on or should i just have sex with him ?
p.s: my friend said that he told her that if i had sex with him he was going to ask me to marry him!! she said he said he really loves me and he cares about me but he cant be with someone that doesnt want to make love with him!! should i believe her ? %-) 8-|
so my question is what should i do?? should i leave him and move on or should i just have sex with him ?
p.s: my friend said that he told her that if i had sex with him he was going to ask me to marry him!! she said he said he really loves me and he cares about me but he cant be with someone that doesnt want to make love with him!! should i believe her ? %-) 8-|
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NO! NO! NO! I doubt that you will marry him. So keep yourself for someone you really love. And if he has had sex before then he dont know what love is. He just wants a new p***y to have sex with. I hope you make the right choice.
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Never let any guy do what you don't want to do. If he loves you like he says he would be willing to wait. I wouldn't believe that he will marry you if you have sex I believe that is just talk to get you to have sex with him. I hope you make the right decision. Good luck.
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I agree with teenmom.
If he loves you make him show it with his face between your legs. If he really cares about YOU that should make him cum without even touching his penis. It always worked for me. When my girl started to orgasm, I just came anyway.
If he loves you make him show it with his face between your legs. If he really cares about YOU that should make him cum without even touching his penis. It always worked for me. When my girl started to orgasm, I just came anyway.
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Thank you so much for your help!! i talked to him and my friend and they said it was just a way to make me have sex with him!! i dumped him and i think i might stay single for awhile!! thank you for all your help!! :-)
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Good!!! Great decision you'll find someone that loves you for you. You need to find someone that will respect your abstinance and wait with you. It's hard to find a teenage guy like that I know. But they are out there I promise. :-D
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AH thank GOD!!!!! :-) do not EVER let anyone MAKE you have sex with them when YOU dont want to..... he was CLEARLY not in love with you and only wanted you for sex.... people will say anything to get some self pleasure and he was NOT going to marry you if you had sex with him (which you already know). Anyways Just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS and good job on making a smart decision..... 8) ;-) :-D
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okay. im 16 and i have big problem. depression.
when i was 15 i had guy, he was 22. i see myself like girl who understands many things. im really good at giving advices and talking to people, listening.. everything. buuuut, i have a problem, and im too scared to talk with anyone.. my mom or my new boyfriend.
so, i knew this guy like 6 months. we were in relationship 4 months. he's really nice and kind guy. he never forced me to anything, u know? but.. one night... we were at his house. we were smoking... joint. so, i was really high :/ so was he. i felt sick, so i lay down and he did too. we started kissing, touching.. and he pulled his hands in my pants.. he started to fingering me. i never touched me down... i think its awful touching it like that. i don't know why... so bla bla bla he asked me do i really want that.. i was so high i said "yes" :( so we had sex. i was always ashamed of my body and everything... so we had sex, for real. he was nice and kind. we had it on bed not in park or wherever girls have their first time. it was nice, but i didn't actually feel it... i felt sorry. i didn't know anything. i actually felt he doesn't know anything about sex o.o anyway.. i really liked that guy, when we were in relationship.. but now, i feel guilty because i don't know why... i liked him in that time... but we had sex just that time, and every day after that i was cold to him and i didn't even wanted to kiss him properly :/ im so stupid... i wanted, but i didn't. so, i met this guy... and i love him.. not like, but love. and i told him im a virgin... because i didn't consider that sex with that guy like really... because i didn't even feel anythin.. i was bleeding when i got home. so, i can't sleep at night because of thinking about that sex with that guy. i really don't want to lose this guy. even he told me that he won't leave me, no matter what.. im scared because I've never told anyone about this. i don't know what to doooo.. help me. im not the person who lie :/ i don't know how to lie well... i feel bad and guilty and sad.. i can't sleep because of thinking on that.. i always want to cry. i don't know.. it wasn't bad, but stil... ): is there anyone i can talk to about this... anyone who feel like me? :/
(sorry if my english is not good...)
when i was 15 i had guy, he was 22. i see myself like girl who understands many things. im really good at giving advices and talking to people, listening.. everything. buuuut, i have a problem, and im too scared to talk with anyone.. my mom or my new boyfriend.
so, i knew this guy like 6 months. we were in relationship 4 months. he's really nice and kind guy. he never forced me to anything, u know? but.. one night... we were at his house. we were smoking... joint. so, i was really high :/ so was he. i felt sick, so i lay down and he did too. we started kissing, touching.. and he pulled his hands in my pants.. he started to fingering me. i never touched me down... i think its awful touching it like that. i don't know why... so bla bla bla he asked me do i really want that.. i was so high i said "yes" :( so we had sex. i was always ashamed of my body and everything... so we had sex, for real. he was nice and kind. we had it on bed not in park or wherever girls have their first time. it was nice, but i didn't actually feel it... i felt sorry. i didn't know anything. i actually felt he doesn't know anything about sex o.o anyway.. i really liked that guy, when we were in relationship.. but now, i feel guilty because i don't know why... i liked him in that time... but we had sex just that time, and every day after that i was cold to him and i didn't even wanted to kiss him properly :/ im so stupid... i wanted, but i didn't. so, i met this guy... and i love him.. not like, but love. and i told him im a virgin... because i didn't consider that sex with that guy like really... because i didn't even feel anythin.. i was bleeding when i got home. so, i can't sleep at night because of thinking about that sex with that guy. i really don't want to lose this guy. even he told me that he won't leave me, no matter what.. im scared because I've never told anyone about this. i don't know what to doooo.. help me. im not the person who lie :/ i don't know how to lie well... i feel bad and guilty and sad.. i can't sleep because of thinking on that.. i always want to cry. i don't know.. it wasn't bad, but stil... ): is there anyone i can talk to about this... anyone who feel like me? :/
(sorry if my english is not good...)
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Hey aleeex, where r u from? It is very normal to feel guilty after having sex but in ur case you should not.... tyou made a mistake and were under the influence of drugs when you did it so in a way its not totally your fault.... mistakes happen you just have to learn from them and move on..... this may take some time but eventually once you accept ur mistake and try to avoid doing it again then
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