Is being uncircumcised less sexy to women than circumcised?

the asker384 wrote:

Do women prefer circumcised or uncircumcised?

IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER LOOK AT UNCIRCUMSIZED INDIANS THEY MAKE ONE OF THE LARGEST POPULATIONS OF THE WORLD.

Believe you, as a non-owner of a penis? As a proud owner of an uncircumcised penis I have to disagree. I may not speak for all uncircumcised men, however I believe I am more qualified to make statements about the cleanliness of a penis than yourself. There should be no difference in cleanliness if a man can wash himself properly. If they can't wash themselves than you have to be a bit worried about them!

In the United States most girls are familiar with uncircumcised so they're just more comfortable with it

I've had experience with both and I don't think that it affects performance at all. I prefer the look of uncircumcised, but I like both. It's all a matter of opinion.

Lmao me too, but all my friends are circumsied but me =[ and they make fun of it a lot, but they don't know that i'm uncut, and if they find out, i'll be humilated for a LONG time, i know what your thinking, "wrong people" but i've known them for 10 years, i just found out that 2 or 3 of my friends are uncut too, building my self esteem, but not enough, i just don't know what to say when they ask me if i'm cut or uncut, it's not easy either, i care ALOT about what people think of me, can't change it i just do. and i'm going out with this girl now, her friend thinks it's beyond disgusting to be uncut, but my girlfriend didn't really answer when my friend asked her, i'm just not sure what i'll answer with, and how she will react to when she finds out, also we are both vigins so it kinda helps.



Be humiliated? or lie until they really find out?



Any suggestions?

No, Practically it doesnt matter. Inf act it depends on duration of my partner, his sex techniques.
Circumsized penis never means a lot.

Im circumsized, and 100% filipino, 23 years old and currently residing at the United states for 6 years. In the Philippines, 99.99% of men are circumsized due to culture and religion. It came to my attention to how people would react in the U.S to such issue, being triggerd in my office group composed with 90% American, we just came to a point that we were talking about "how would it feel like to be intact or uncircumsized. so i told them my story.



i was circumsized at the age of 15, i had my first girl friend at the age of 13, and first sex about 13.1/2 years old. anyways, my experience being intact was fun, exciting, chilling and at first scary to how would my xgfs would react to me being intact, well so you guys know, being intact in a 99.99% circumsized country is humiliating (as far as i can remember, being intact was the worse thing ever) so my 1st xgf was 16 years old and was "sexually active" at an early age, yes i say so my self, and is realy aware of the uncircumsized/circumsized part. i used to bring her into my room and have a little kissing scene and when i realize it came close to she would pull my pants down, i would pull it back up, several times she felt weird and i always came to the excuse that it was a bit to early, and when it went on for a couple of events, she started to notice and asked me "are you gay" so i said no. she said she was a bit worried, and one time, we were drinkin and i got so drunk (yes, philippines has no age requirement for alchoholic bevrages or smoking) and went to her house, we got i

the bed and i couldnt control my self, she got my pants off and i said to my self "f*ck it, i wanna do this" and let her know this time or its not gonna happen. So she found out, got freaked out at first and said, "so this is what your so afraid of huh", i was speechless and just nodded my head. i was suprised what she said to me that she had a hint that it was oredy the case and she is totaly down with it if it was true , so it was. that first sex was awsome, although i went off prematurely at first but we had all night. i was so relived, we had sex almost everyday after that. But the relationship didnt last long as we parted school, she went to college and i was still stuck at highschool. it was cool though, but then here comes my 2nd xgf, i was 14 by that time, and had to do the same process all over again, to hide from her and stuff but this time, we were at the same age and she was a virgin, basically she knows nothing about it yet so it was on my advantage. we first had sex, she didnt even know that i was intact till i told her and she was perfectly fine with it. then i got the operation after my 15th birthday, i had sex the night before i was scheduled for circumcision cause its a painfull procedure and it could go up to 6 months of healing process. mine took only a month to heal so it was alright. well as for me, like any other filipino, its a "WELCOME to manhood" kinda thing and its a big deal, so i told my 1st xgf about it (but ofcourse after it was all healed up) we set up a date and had sex. both xgfs said that it was better before than what it is after the operation, i didnt exactly understood what they ment by it BUT i personaly liked the fact that i was oredy circumsized and was totaly happy with it, extra boost of confidence, didnt have to hide to any girl i came acrossed, well lets say, i done it with alot of girls and i was amazed to how it felt, it felt great. the sensation was new to me as when i was intact, the foreskin was not yet retractable until the back of the head of the penis, it hurt a little when it was forced to be retracted, i had sex before with the forceskin just covering the head which was extreemely sensitive, and then all of the sudden, newly circumsized was realy great without the forskin attached anymore, the head is exposed, at the first year it was great until it slowly losses its sesitivity, i have to admit, now it is less sensitive than what it was before BUT also alot cleaner. back then , cleaning underneath the foreskin was no easy task , it was hypersensitive and it could feel a little discomforting.

the pros and cons of being uncircumsized based on my personal experince :

pros :

Sex is more sexy, intense and alot presurable for the man side.
Very easy to ejaculate due to the foreskin

cons :

ok, not all men can retract thier foreskins all the way down and i bet not all men with intact penis can wash it regularly so there is only one disadvantage is the cleanliness. it tends to get a little ouchy trying to clean it so some might not do it at all.

circumsized :

well like i said, you FEEL more confident having a circumsized penis.
very easy to clean because the sensitivity leven goes down to id say 70%, rubbing it and soaping it woud never be a problem or a hassel

cons :

there is VERY less sensitivity, thus less pleasure.
takes longer to go off
can never get back to being intact XD


so you guys out there that are still intact, honestly i envy you guys because belive me, the sensation is way different once you are cut, just dont forget to clean them as much as possible for your partner so she wont have any problems with it. other than that theres nothing wrong with it and you should consider yourselves lucky.

Well.. im a guy and i will answer this for you!! I AM NOT GAY!! i have an uncircumsized penis and i am 15. I got a 8 1/2 inch penis. So the question is if not you like uncircumsized or circumsized penis it is if you want


A. uncircumsized but large penis

B. a circumsized but smaller penis

So which are u willing to chose a small or big penis!!

I actually hate not being circumsized. My girlfriend won't really go near it and she has said before it doesn't bother her, but today she said se would give me oral if I was circumsized. The way she said it made me feel like I was a piece of c**p. As if I was a monster... I felt like I was nothing and now I feel disgusted with myself... I am considering circumsicion.

So what's the problem?
You hate being whole, she hates you being whole.
You love her, she loves the you she wishes you were.
Get it cut, if that will make her happy.
Invite her to be there to make sure the doctor does it the way she wants it.
Do you want us to tell you what to do?
It appears she's already decided that for you.

A couple of things strike me about your comment.



First, your gf said it didn't make any difference to her.



Then, she later tells you that she would give you oral IF you were circumcized. What is this supposed to do for you... motifvate you to get it cut? Or reject you for what you are? Either way, it doesn't sound like a loving comment from her in either case.



What happens if you get a surgery, and then she decides to leave you anyway? What happens if you get "cut" and then decide that YOU don't like it? How are you going to feel about her, if this happens?



You don't tell us how old you are.

The older you are, the less likely a man is to have the change.

He gets used to how his body responds and what he likes to do, and how to do it.



But the change produces substantial differences in sensation, no matter what.



I would urge you NOT to rush into such a change to please your gf.... Because the change is one way and permanent...and girlfriends are notoriously fickle.



Talk with a counselor before you make a decision on this, ok?

I'm only 20 years old and we have been together for about 1 year and 7 months... It never really bothered me much. I mean our sex life is wonderful but I did start noticing why I would never get any special treatment down there. After the comment was said it does make someone feel like something is wrong with them. She has never had a uncut penis before and I'm the first. Is there ways anybody might know in order to be happy with being intact.

I'm very happy with being intact.
A foreskin is a thing of beauty and a joy forever.
Mine pulls all the way back so the tip ends up at the bottom of the shaft.
In that position it looks just like a circumcised penis, minus the scar o.O
My wife is very happy with me having a foreskin. I tried holding it back to see what sex felt like if I was circumcised. She didn't like that and wouldn't let me do that again. She said it was much better for her with the foreskin where it belonged.

Would she be willing to get her hood cut off so you can get at her clitoris without that ugly thing in the way?
Would you be so mean as to tell her she had to get her hood or her labia cut off before you will lick her?
If you did say that, how do you think she would feel?
How would YOU feel if you made her feel bad about her natural attributes?

You should get it in writing and have it notarized that she will do all the nice things to you that you want, if you get it mutilated for her. My wife doesn't want to touch my penis or do anything to it, but that has nothing to do with me having a foreskin. After we were 25 years married she remembered that her father had sexually abused her when she was a teenager. She says that must be the reason she doesn't want to touch my penis.

I'm not sure why a woman would be able to feel any difference between a circumcized and uncircumcised penis during intercourse.

The concern you have over how she makes you feel seems to be the root of the problem.

Remember, at age 20, there are a lot of years ahead of you and many more fish in the sea....

Speak to a counselor about this before deciding to do anything.