i need help me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6 months now and have had sex twice she says i arrouse her and she wants to have sex. the first time we had sex i stopped because she started crying so i stopped right that secound. the secound time we tried she said it hurt worse than the first time. she told me when she got home that she was bleeding pretty bad. does this mean her hyman broke? she also says that when i finger her with one finger it feels good for awhile then starts hurting why is that? and she says it hurts when i use two fingers so i dont do that anymore. what can i do to make sex enjoyable for her? i am very understanding and comfort her in anyway i can. please if anyone has advice this will help greatly. thank you
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I forget what the medical term for it is but she could have this thing where her vaginal muscles spasm and tense to keep anything from entering (so she more than likely can't use tampons) It's kind of like when muscles spasm to keep anymore damage from being done. Try having her to just relax more but she may have to go to her gynecologist for this. Hoped I helped a little.
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thank you for the tip i very much appreciate it. if she does have this medical problem can it be fixed or is it going to be like this forever
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You're welcome and well I think it's curable, but she needs to go to her gynecologists to be sure that's what it is. It was a lady who had this condition and she got botox shots in her vagina and it worked, so I guess it's curable. You can always try again before going to a doctor, just have her to try to relax and then use some lubricant to help everything to go more smoothly and if it doesn't work then go to the doctor.
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