I'm 16, and I had sex with my 1st cousin, 2 weeks ago. He pulled out, but there was that moment when he stopped while he was in me and then pulled out and I saw he covered his shirt on his p*nis and so.. He said he didn't come in me, but the way i'm having my period is getting me super worried. He's 19 and i'm 16. I'm highly grossed out by the situation, and I know it was wrong, but whatever. SO. I looked online and they said i might have an miscarriage, or i'm stressed or i'm pregnant. And this week is the week i'm supposed to get my period. I was cramping two days ago, but not a lot, then yesterday morning, I was cramping a lot more and so I put a pad on and took two advils. During the whole day , i had bad crampings but when I went to change my pad, there was brown discharge on the pad, which is dried blood and it wasn't as much as it usually is when i'm normally on my period. When i wiped, i saw blood, which happens when you're on your period, but the thing is that it wasn't alot . it was just a streak of blood. This morning when I woke up, I had some really bad period cramping and went to the bathroom, there was a little bit more blood than it was before, but again, when I wiped, there was a little bit of blood, but more than yesterday's. My cousin's telling me not to freak out, but I'm getting really scared because this could be implantation, but I've seen the pictures on google images and it doesn't look like what I have right now. I don't want to tell my mom cause she will kill me, AND she will be totally disgusted about the fact that i had sex with my first cousin . I feel the same way. I feel so sick and so disturbed by this. I know that after this whole thing blows, I'm never ever going to view him the same way because this has been going on since I was little. He would touch me and stuff, but then about last year, he had sex with me for the first time.. :| And now this is the 2nd time and I'm freaking out big time. please HELP... I'm actually considering killing myself or running away . I can't deal with this .. Please PLEASE PLEASE HELP .
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Hi - Try not to get too upset right now. It's good that you're concerned, and it's very good that you reached out. It is probably nothing terrible, but you should go immediately (today) to a doctor. The doctor will be able to help you (maybe give you the "morning after pill" to stop you from getting pregnant) and will find out if you have anything to worry about. At your young age, it isn't so unusual to have changes in your period. Most things like this can be taken care of pretty easily, but you should see a doctor today. Depending on what state you live in, you might not need your mother's permission to go, if you're able to get to a doctor on your own. If you need your mom to take you to the doctor, but you don't feel that you can tell your mom the whole truth, at least tell her right now that you are concerned about what's going on with you physically and you want her to take you to a doctor today. Then, ask to speak to the doctor without your mother in the room, and you can tell your doctor everything he or she needs to know. (She'll probably ask you if you had sex, and while it's good for you to be honest, it's more important for you to get to the doctor -- so you can just tell her for now that you aren't going to talk about that with her right now. You might even tell her that you will tell the doctor everything, but you are embarrassed to tell her everything right now.)
Your health right now is what is important. You can deal with the fact that your cousin seems to be taking advantage of you in some other way. That you can deal with by talking to another trusted adult on another day. For today, keep your focus on getting immediate attention to see if there's anything wrong with you physically.
Marilyn
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I'm sorry I just re-read and I see that you had sex two weeks ago, so the morning after pill is probably not an option - so if you get to the doctor tomorrow, it's probably early enough. If you aren't sure what doctor to go to, many places have "urgent care" facilities. If you don't want to go with your mom, do you have an adult female friend you trust to take you? It is better for you to go with a female friend, and preferably an adult and not another teenager.
Marilyn
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