The same exact thing happened to me. I am on year three, of skipping Nov, Dec periods. I am looking at my previous journals. And here is the only thing that I can come up.
Four years ago, I had the worst Xmas of my life. One of my adult children had come home from his first year in college. He acted like a complete and total monster, assaulting a family member, and relentlessly acting like the biggest jerk he could possibly be. This is putting it mildly. He is my first born, and he's always had deep emotional issues, but how he acted at that very long visit, took the cake.
After wards, I went into a probablly a very deep and over due depression about him, and our impending and most necessary estrangement. I did some deep digging and after the depression lifted, I had a different perspective on things, and trying to help him.
Since then, he still visits, and everything, and I;ve managed to come up with a way to deal with him and keep other family members safe. But each year, now, and ever since, I live with this new hyper awareness, sensitivity and impending sense of panic and doom toward the holidays. It starts right after Halloween. I get this horrible anxiousness and I am not as happy as I am in the fall.
So now, in anticipation of a god awful and very long visit, I am stressed out to the gills. I am TTC again, well over 40, cycles have always been like clockwork. I 've read that the HPA Axis, hypothalmus, pitutarity, adrenals, which is responsible for ovulation, is very sensitive to stress. Hormones that are supposed to develop eggs, instead turn into cortisol!
My take, that in my agitated state at the end of the year, I dont ovulate, {even though my basal temps look like it does} and I dont get my period in November. This jumpstarts a cascade effect to the next cycle. December, and I miss that period too. By January, things even out, and its normal, if there is an issue, that it takes 3 months for cycles to even themselves out due to many things, {dietary changes, exercise, climate, etc}.
Since these changes seem to be seasonal for a lot of us here, I think that time of year, when you skip a period, look for environmental changes, as well as personal ones. Stress is a huge ONE, and effects the follicular phase. And if you dnot ovulate, then typically there is no period. {typically, but it can happened and does happen to some}
I've given up on Nov, Dec, as the holidays have historically, been horrible for me, and I cant wait for my family to go home, and for me to get back to my life. I will probably skip Nov, dec next year too.
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I figured it might be because of winter, but I don't know. Maybe there will be research and case studies about this in the future.
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Nothing is wrong with any of us according to my Mom. There were not always 12 months in a year. There were 13 months.
Our body is still in tune with nature and no one can change that. Check it out. All the best to everyone.
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