I am 68 years old , and i have had 12 kinds... but now i have had a historectomy... and bladder repair... my granddaughter and i are going on a trip to texas... well i have noticed that around my private patch.. i am swollen REALLY bad... and the stretch marks are even swollen... i can only pee a lil bit.. but i feel like i cant stop, but i am stopped.... is this a sighn of bladder drop again... or is it something else.... please help me!!!!!