my boyfriend is bit conservative regarding all these (sex) issues and we hardly make out.we are getting married next month. he loves me a lot and also he is very caring but while having sex he is hardly in control. he prefers to tie my hands tight and then every time he almost kind of rapes me.he bites me hard on my whole body and now there is hardly any corner on my body that dosent have bite marks. last night he was so rough that he almost broke my wrist but at that time even when i was crying and begging him to leave me he didnt listen and after this whole episode he himself took me to the doctor and every time he says ''aap batati kyun nai hai jab aapko takleef hoti hai'' and i think that even if i try to tell hm he hardly gives a damm.i love him very much and also i come from a very conservative family and he is my choice.i dont want to leave him.please help he out
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1. You stay with him and put up with the abuse
2. You leave him and find someone who would treat you better before something bad happens
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blankcanvas002 is right, though I suspect there's more going on here than you realise. Your boyfriend is being abusive, the only question is why.
In 99% of cases it's because that's just how he is and one day it could seriously hurt you. If that's the case it's all about control - he probably has a family where the Father is dominant over the Mother and while this may be passed off as "traditional" it's actually a form of abuse as he sees you as his property to do what he likes with. In this case there is no doubt that you need to leave him and quickly! You imply that you live in a very traditional, possibly religious area, but I assure you there is no religion that would support this form of abuse. The fact he took you to the Doctor is not a sign of him loving you and caring for you, it's actually a very clear act of control - despite him appearing to care I bet he didn't leave you alone with the Doctor...
The one chance you may have is if his knowledge of sex is entirely based on internet porn - he thinks what he's doing is right because he knows no different and has never been told any different, though from what you say, that's not the case.
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