Hi everyone, this is my first time writing this so bare with me = ) So, my fiance and I have been together 2 1/2 years, he is a wonderful man. Things would almost be perfect if our sex life improved. At first, we had sex all the time (don't we all?!) And he had no problem making the move. Now, I am the only one who initiates, and I have even tried to get him to initiate ( looking sexy, lying naked next to him etc.) However, he never does. I know he has a sex drive because he pleasures himself several times a day every day, which I know men just do. So, now that we know he has the drive, why doesn't he use it toward me? I have talked with him about this many times in the past year, he will do better for maybe a week then back to his old ways. When we have sex we both cum, but I do wish it was much kinkier and passionate. He doesn't even kiss me anymore, during sex or just in general =( Stress isn't an issue either because his job hasn't changed. the only thing that has changed is I had my IUD taken out, which I did because he recommended I do so, and he said one of the reasons he wasn't as turned on was because I had the IUD. Now that I have it taken out, he seems even more distant. I sometimes feel like I want to leave him because of this, but am I overreacting if I choose not to be with someone over sex? In all my past relationships (all long-term) this was never an issue. I had sex every day, it was good sex, and I know I'm good in bed... Any advice??
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